just found this thread. It is very astonishing, and I'm glad the subject is not being ignored or brushed away by gransnet. It is the most extraordinary social issue of our time.
I think it comes down to a mental health issue. People want to change irrevocably when they are distressed to the point that they want to erase themselves and what better way than to reinvent themselves as the other sex. Its a sign, a symptom of distress. However, encouraging it is wrong because it tears down natural safeguards protecting the female sex.
Back to basics...when you go for a prenatal scan and wish to know sex of child...it is based on whether there is a visible penis or not. That's it. When you breed animals at weaning you sex them, that is you separate those that have penises from those that don't. Foolproof.
Suddenly we are expected to believe that the presence of a penis is meaningless. It isn't. Female sexual characteristics eg mammary glands are not visible till puberty. Female sex organs are inside the body.
I am equally sure that all creatures with penises, about to be separated from females, if they could speak, would say...NO I identify as not having one...yeh well, sorry too risky.
back to basics. It is not better or worse to have a penis it is just fundamentally sexually different. I just wish people would wise up - stop using the word gender when they mean sex... stop letting children think it is a moveable feast...only those with penises gain.
Dont let penis-havers call all the shots...they always have and this is a sign they are very desperate. Hold strong, resist all changes that put females at risk. Thats what being kind is.