Or perhaps you mean this kind of wicked conspiracists out to deny women their rights?
Last night I attended a meeting by Woman’s Place UK held at the Mechanics Institute in Manchester. The title was “The importance and future of single-sex service provision in policy and law’. I tweeted liberally from the meeting in support of the speakers, as many others did. This morning I woke up to find the hashtag #WPUKManchester was trending at No7 and I was pleased because obviously women had amplified other women’s voices effectively. As I began to engage with other Twitter users about the event I was abruptly locked out of my account and given a 12-hour ban. A man had reported me for inciting violence and harassment. The sick irony of this is not lost on women.
A protest was organised against the meeting. As I entered it, I was expecting to be confronted by trans activists who had declared on a poster, “Let’s show them they’re not welcome here!’ The “them” being “TERFS”, or as they are more commonly known, women. Surprisingly no protesters were at the door and I entered, hugging women I knew and took my seat. As the Chair Emma Hilton began the event, shockingly loud chants began booming behind her head, broadcast from a sound system outside, and she looked briefly unsettled before continuing. The protest had now arrived.
Fuck TERFs” was shouted repeatedly, amongst many other misogynist and hateful things. Women in the room were brave and carried on speaking, attempting to be heard above the outside mob, but many of us were of course scared because we knew that the potential for being hurt by protesters as we left was significant. Many of us are survivors of male violence; loved ones had sent messages about our safety, worrying about us.
Watching our phones to see what was happening, and judge the threat, we realised that the protesters were large in number and they looked and sounded incredibly angry and threatening. Greater Manchester Police had escorted this angry crowd of threatening men, and some women, through the City Centre to the doors of a meeting where women were speaking about their rights; a meeting they were legally entitled to hold.
We began to appeal to the police from our Twitter accounts to ensure our safety and to act to move on the angry protesters. Women who ventured outside to see what was happening were asked by police to return inside so that they didn’t “inflame things”. The mirror with women being abused in a domestic setting and trying not to “wind up” the abuser is stark.
The really eerie moment was at 9.20pm when the mob went suddenly silent. Women who have been abused know to fear the moment when an abuser goes suddenly quiet. They know to brace for what is coming.