It's not clear who you were aiming at, volver, but in case it's me, I haven't decided not to vote. I've decided to listen to TB and his cronies and see what they have to offer. If they offer an alternative to the Tories which accepts women are women, then I may very well vote for them.
I know you don't believe that people should put this issue ahead of others, but many, many women across all of the 'captured' parties are doing so, whether you like it or not. I don't understand why the parties concerned are not waking up to this, and at least talking to us.
Sneers and insults will never change my mind about anything; but as I keep saying, if someone lays out a proper argument which doesn't want women to give up rights in favour of men's wants, and doesn't rely on 'they just know', and 'it's a feeling' then I will happily listen. It's never happened, though.
The lack of dialogue, although I understand the fear of being attacked and bullied by the TRAs, is all the more reason to jump ship, as it implies that the people concerned don't believe it anyway (how can they?) and are just parroting Stonewall's policies because of fear of being bullied. Much as I respect Keir Starmer and others in many ways, and much as I agree with many of their policies, I will not be patronised or sidelined like this by people who are supposed to represent me.