What no one ever explains, because this has cropped up before, how they manage to simultaneously cope with whatever the job involves and break off several times during their working day or possibly more depending on the baby, for lengthy sessions of feeding it, and as we all know from our ante natal classes all our focus need to be on this, locking eyes and all of that. it can't be hurried, we go at the pace of the baby, which can mean they drop off intermittently whilst they are feeding, only to wake up and continue. Then there is the aftermath of the feed, winding, changing, settling. I felt I'd achieved something if I managed to get out of the house by 11 am to do anything! I love the way some people breezily announce that "oh I just carry on with my job whilst my baby sleeps peacefully by my side" yeah right! That's of course if those people around you, you know your colleagues, want a baby in the workplace disrupting what they are trying to get on with.
How does a 'lived experience' differ from an 'experience'?