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Is the LP changing its stance on 'gender'?

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Doodledog Sun 17-Jul-22 23:17:30

I've thought for a while that the worm was turning when it comes to 'trans' issues. It is finally getting through that support for self-id is misogynistic and that gender-criticism is not the same as transphobia. Slowly but surely, court cases and policy changes are moving towards (to my mind) a more sensible approach.

Ironically for many women I know who are broadly left-wing, it has been the Tories who have caught on to this first, and it's interesting that at least two of the leadership candidates have mentioned 'gender politics' or 'culture wars' in their campaigns. Meanwhile, the LP has been woefully behind the times, with idiotic comments about men having cervixes and how transpeople are the most marginalised group in society.

But now it appears that they realise that they are behind the curve, and that many feminists and female-supporting men will struggle to vote for them - or maybe it's that they realise that it's becoming more acceptable to speak against the tyranny, and they are now saying what they really think. Either way (and I speak as a member of the LP) it's not a good look, but it's a better look than the craven adherence to Stonewall's No Debate mantra that we've seen so far.

This is from James Kirkup in the Spectator and for those who don't like links the text is at the bottom of the post.

It's probably obvious that I would be delighted if the LP did a U -turn on this. I'm not delighted at the display of what I see as cowardice that has held sway for so long, but it will be such a relief to be able to vote for the party whose policies are closer to my heart than any of the others without fearing that by doing so I am betraying my daughter and future generations of women.

What do others think? Am I being naively optimistic? Will the Lib Dems, the Greens and SNP rethink their ideas ahead of the GE? Will any of it make a difference to how you vote, or do you think that it isn't important compared to other issues?

Here is the text of the Spectator article:

Amid the noise of the Tory leadership fight, some significant comments in the papers could be missed today. Here’s the quote, from a Sunday Times interview with an intelligent, ambitious female politician in her forties:

“Biology is important. A woman is somebody with a biology that is different from a man’s biology. We’re seeing in sport sensible decisions being made about who cannot compete in certain cases."

Could it reflect a new approach to trans issues from the Labour leadership?
She says she would ‘have a problem’ with someone with male genitals identifying as a woman and using a female changing space, and isn’t entirely sold on the use of gender pronouns. ‘You don’t have to say to someone, “Shall I call you he or she?” – it’s pretty obvious. But there are also difficult cases of somebody who is born as one sex and defines as another. I wouldn’t want to deny their right to define themselves in the way they want to be defined.’

Even by the standards of recent days, that’s pretty punchy. In particular that line on rejecting pronouns because ‘it’s pretty obvious’ strikes me as potentially controversial. I certainly know people and groups who would find that offensive. No candidate in the Tory race has thus been so outspoken on sex and gender. So are those quotes above yet another Conservative attempt to stoke a culture war?

That phrase has been used a lot recently, generally with disapproval and often by people keen to dismiss the concerns that some women raise about the impact of trans-rights policies on their rights and standing. And framing women’s concerns as the product of right-wing, social conservative politics makes them easier for lots of people in politics and the media to ignore and denigrate those concerns as marginal and ideological.

Of course, there’s nothing illegitimate about being either right-wing or socially conservative (I’m neither) but in much of our public discourse, those things are routinely denigrated, put beyond the pale of acceptability. So it’s significant that the author of those comments above cannot possibly be described as a right-winger or a social conservative. She is Rachel Reeves, Labour’s shadow chancellor.

The fact that Reeves, as smart and decent a politician as you’ll find in the Commons today, has said these things could have many implications. Could it strain Labour unity? It’s pretty hard to reconcile those comments with the position of some of her frontbench colleagues.

Could it reflect a new approach to trans issues from the Labour leadership? Reeves is today taking a much clearer line than Sir Keir Starmer, who has been more equivocal. I don’t know the answer to those questions, which can wait for another day.

My point here today is simpler. Rachel Reeves, the Labour shadow chancellor, has backed banning transwomen from women’s sport and excluding them from women’s spaces. And she’s rejected using gendered pronouns. By doing so, Reeves has provided yet more evidence to prove that concerns about trans rights policies and their impact on women’s rights are not right-wing or conservative. Nor are they marginal or ideological.
James Kirkup

Stormystar Sun 24-Jul-22 21:22:22

Chewbacca I suggest certainly a possibility but not necessarily probable.

Mollygo Sun 24-Jul-22 21:08:11

???

DaisyAnne Sun 24-Jul-22 20:57:49

Glorianny

DaisyAnne

I did read the thread title FarNorth. No need to try and be clever. What I said is that I must read the full OP as the titles are sometimes misleading - as I found this one. This happens from time to times. I am sure I am not the only one to have found some groups are basically "closed" groups.

We live and learn each time and then avoid such groups as I will next time this group posts. However, it is easy to avoid the "Estrangement" threads as they have a Forum Topic heading. This one doesn't. I have no idea what you would call it but just think - if I could avoid these posts we would both be happy smile

DaisyAnne I think the advice is avoid any thread with the word gender in the title. There is a group on GN determined to keep posting their views over and over again. Like the child that screams to have its own way, they yell "Agree with me"at the top of their voice and pretend they want to discuss when all they really want is to confirm each others prejudices. Ignore them and don't engage.

I think you're right Glorianny. I shall watch out for it as a no-no.

Doodledog Sun 24-Jul-22 20:53:44

Agreed, Stormystar. The same is true of Eddie Izzard and Courtney Act, both of whom 'are' male on some days and female on others.

Whilst I can't see the harm in that on a day to day level, I don't think that relying on what is 'in their heads' on a given day is reason enough for them to be able to come and go in fundamental ways, such as 'competing' in sport or entering enclosed spaces where there are vulnerable women.

Chewbacca Sun 24-Jul-22 20:51:29

Whilst Phillip is inhabiting his reality of fluidity that determines his daily performance is it possible that he could respect the need for safe spaces for women at all?

Stormystar Sun 24-Jul-22 20:35:37

FarNorth are you saying if there is an essential self beyond sexual/gender identity, then Transition is a defunct unnecessary proposition. As Philip inhabits a reality of fluidity it’s mere mood or temperament that determines the daily performance. The essential self being unalterable.

FarNorth Sun 24-Jul-22 19:17:57

It would be interesting to know what is the difference between being identified as a transwoman and being the same person, presenting in the same ways, and not choosing to identify as a transwoman.

I don't know if Philip Bunce is helpful to consideration of this, or not.
Clearly he has different body language, depending on which 'identity' he is in. Maybe he has different vocal language too or/and a different voice.
Nevertheless, he is the same person and everyone who knows him is aware of that.

Chewbacca Sun 24-Jul-22 18:57:39

Brilliant post @ 18.27 Stormystar.

Doodledog Sun 24-Jul-22 18:51:36

A valid question, Stormystar. It baffles me, too - particularly when those who believe it can happen also claim that they wish to broaden the scope of gender expectations and reduce stereotypes.

This is one of the main problems I have with understanding their point of view. Gender stereotypes have been slowly but surely breaking down for the last few decades, which is, IMO all to the good and liberating for all concerned. There is no reason why someone should have to (or feel that they need to) 'transition' to the opposite sex in order to adopt new gender roles - they can just adopt them.

If trans people are really the most marginalised group in society, there is all the more reason for 'transitioning' to be unnecessary, and if a very high percentage of transwomen are sexually intact males who can't define a woman, then it makes no sense at all - as you say, what are they hoping to achieve by becoming marginalised?

I have asked for explanations, but have met with naked hostility, personal abuse and more. It is, apparently, an extremist view, and asking questions is 'cross-questioning'. I hope you have more success.

Stormystar Sun 24-Jul-22 18:27:17

If, as the transgender ideology insists there is nothing to definitively pronounce what constitutes a Man or a Woman, then there can be no foundational basis to trans From or To. Not mentally emotionally psychologically or biologically. There is no North Star, no map of meaning. This is the conundrum I can’t get my head around. How can you trans into something that is a chimera. Illumination anyone?

Iam64 Sun 24-Jul-22 18:24:47

Neither have I. Even Google didn’t help with that one.

FarNorth Sun 24-Jul-22 17:27:45

What is TaF?
I've not come across that before.

Mollygo Sun 24-Jul-22 16:06:33

DaisyAnne I think the advice is avoid any thread with the word gender in the title. * There is a group on GN determined to keep posting their views over and over again. Like the child that screams to have its own way, they yell "Agree with me"at the top of their voice and pretend they want to discuss when all they really want is to confirm each others prejudices. Ignore them and don't engage.
Do take note DaisyAnne, although the above mentioned TaF group of posters who post their views over and over again refuse to accept that the more reasonable posters support people’s right to choose their gender, merely reiterating that the majority of those being transgender do not wish any harm or upset to women
This reasonable group are unlike the TaF group who constantly post their views, who do not deny trans the right to use actions which could cause such harm or distress to females.
Unless you support the TaF group, and wish to scream and yell to get your own way, the advice not to engage is well given.

Glorianny Sun 24-Jul-22 15:35:31

DaisyAnne

I did read the thread title FarNorth. No need to try and be clever. What I said is that I must read the full OP as the titles are sometimes misleading - as I found this one. This happens from time to times. I am sure I am not the only one to have found some groups are basically "closed" groups.

We live and learn each time and then avoid such groups as I will next time this group posts. However, it is easy to avoid the "Estrangement" threads as they have a Forum Topic heading. This one doesn't. I have no idea what you would call it but just think - if I could avoid these posts we would both be happy smile

DaisyAnne I think the advice is avoid any thread with the word gender in the title. There is a group on GN determined to keep posting their views over and over again. Like the child that screams to have its own way, they yell "Agree with me"at the top of their voice and pretend they want to discuss when all they really want is to confirm each others prejudices. Ignore them and don't engage.

Chewbacca Sun 24-Jul-22 15:02:12

FarNorth grin

Doodledog Sun 24-Jul-22 14:58:17

No need to avoid anything. If you have an opinion, please express it - I don't think you've done so yet, other than to tell others how boring you find us and that people on both 'sides' of the debate are extremists, thus painting yourself as the only one who is able to moderate her views? Self-praise is no recommendation, as my mother used to say. These threads would be more interesting all round if those with other opinions joined in, and said more than 'you are all meanies and are picking on me'.

If they are echo chambers it is only because it is rare for someone from who disagrees to post and engage in a debate - ie answer questions that are put to them and go beyond 'TWAW' in their replies.

People coming onto threads simply to police what others post is tedious though.

FarNorth Sun 24-Jul-22 14:55:33

The title includes 'gender'. That should have been enough of a clue.

It's such fun getting involved in these little diversions, tho, when someone from your group pops into a thread.

Elegran Sun 24-Jul-22 14:51:37

The forum topic is "News & politics" and is visible above the title. It isn't any more specific than that, as the hot news topics change so often that GNHQ would have to keep adding new topics - and as it takes them months (years?) to add any to the list, they would always be out of date.

DaisyAnne Sun 24-Jul-22 14:42:40

I did read the thread title FarNorth. No need to try and be clever. What I said is that I must read the full OP as the titles are sometimes misleading - as I found this one. This happens from time to times. I am sure I am not the only one to have found some groups are basically "closed" groups.

We live and learn each time and then avoid such groups as I will next time this group posts. However, it is easy to avoid the "Estrangement" threads as they have a Forum Topic heading. This one doesn't. I have no idea what you would call it but just think - if I could avoid these posts we would both be happy smile

FarNorth Sun 24-Jul-22 12:21:50

Yes DaisyAnne reading the thread title and the OP is always a good way to start.
I recommend it.

Chewbacca Sun 24-Jul-22 12:17:37

That's annoying for you, because now it will keep coming up on your "I'm on" threads every time someone posts. It is frustrating.

DaisyAnne Sun 24-Jul-22 12:08:17

I don't, thank yousmile I now just want to avoid these threads. I shall just have to check the OP more carefully won't I. You're not alone. I once got on an Estrangement thread by accident too, but now I can look out for the Forum Topic and avoid them.

FarNorth Sun 24-Jul-22 12:01:05

It definitely was about the Labour Party and its stance on gender, as clearly stated in the title.
If you want to get it back on track, to that subject, please do.

DaisyAnne Sun 24-Jul-22 11:55:55

That was not what I said. This thread has degraded (my opinion) to the standard "I'm right, they're wrong" spat.

I'm not saying that's not what you should be talking about. However, clear titles do help. These thread are a "no go area" for anyone with an alternative opinion so it's easier to avoid them than be faced by all the "you can't say that" comments.

Perhaps you could have your own Forum Topic.

Chewbacca Sun 24-Jul-22 11:41:49

confused Well if you'd clicked on the James Kirkup link in the opening post, you'd have seen that it was very much connected to the Labour Party's stance on trans issues. Maybe have a look?