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FannyCornforth Thu 08-Sept-22 12:38:58

It sounds worrying, doesn’t it?

foxie48 Fri 09-Sept-22 08:31:37

Although I rather liked the Queen I feel 10 days of mourning for the whole country is a bit OTT. We are in a crisis situation, have had no government to speak of for the last two months or so and the last thing we need is for all the focus to be on the Monarchy. When the Duke of Edinburgh died it was completely OTT, fgs he was 99 and had a good long life. Those who want to mourn her passing surely can do that without subjecting the whole country to it. I want to hear robust questioning of the new PM not endless programmes about the Queen's love of horses and I am completely obsessed with horses!

Joseanne Fri 09-Sept-22 08:28:35

It might not be worldwide mourning as such, but there is certainly compassion felt everywhere. I am in France and have received messages from 3 sets of French friends here, and this morning in the boulangerie the lady offered her condolences. Such is the respect the Queen commanded everywhere.

westendgirl Fri 09-Sept-22 08:25:53

A great monarch, with such dedication and devotion to duty to the country . Although many of us never met her we all felt we knew her.A time of sadness at the loss of an inspiring lady who gave so much to so many people.

Maddy I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Katie59 Fri 09-Sept-22 08:25:09

All sorts of cancellations announced, this is going to cause a lot of disruption and disappointment for many.
Is this how the queen would want to be remembered ?.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 09-Sept-22 08:21:48

Franbern the 10 day official mourning period started at midnight.

Selfridges has closed all its shops today, as have many others.

Royal Mail and the Train strikes have been called off as a mark of respect.

Franbern Fri 09-Sept-22 08:18:54

I have to a say that the death of a 96 year old woman has absolutely no effect whatsoever on me or my family. She had a good innings and a very luxury lifestyle. She died with excellent medical care, in her own home, surrounded by her family. Who could hope for more??

Not for her lying in the floor waiting hours for an ambulance that did not arrive, nor neglected, even abused, in a non-caring 'care' home, or in a hospital bed with not enough nurses around to ensure she was kept clean, fed, etc.

It really will not make ANY difference whether there is a Queen or a King there. The fact that she has been there for a large part of my life is really nothing I am particularly proud off - or ashamed off or have any other feelings about.

Obviously, sad for her family and friends, but there would have been many other deaths yesterday equally sad for families and friends. Not knowing them I do not mourn them any more than I will mourn this stranger.

I read that there had been plans in place for a 12 day official mourning period - and I fervently hope this is not true - as I fear for the mental health of so many people if this does take place. Avoiding British news channels all ready.

Just a thought - will we get that much called-for extra Bank Holiday this year for the funeral??

Luckygirl3 Fri 09-Sept-22 08:06:51

I agree about the Last Night of the Proms - it is so essentially a British thing and could have been a vehicle for honouring the Queen's memory on behalf of the 4 nations.

nanna8 Fri 09-Sept-22 08:01:27

We had a toast to the Queen today at our Red Hat luncheon here in Australia. Everyone will miss her continuing presence and the stability she gave to the UK and the commonwealth nations.

downtoearth Fri 09-Sept-22 07:55:33

RIP Your Majesty,thankyou for feeling of stability you have given,your reign encompassed my years.
I cannot forget your lonely figure on your own without a hand to hold,one solitary tear escaping at the funeral of your beloved Phillip.

You have earned your rest Ma'am,but you will be sorely missed.

God save the King .

Spinnaker Fri 09-Sept-22 06:48:51

RIP Your Majesty. I'm saddened by this awful news, she was the one constant in the country and will never, in my opinion, be replaced.

Condolences also to Maddyone on the loss of your Mum flowers

vegansrock Fri 09-Sept-22 06:28:15

An historic moment no doubt and very sad for many. I don’t buy the “whole world is in mourning” notion, but that’s just an aside. I find much of the media coverage and speculation rather repetitive and unnecessary time filling. I am rather shocked that the Last night of the Proms has been cancelled, as I thought they could make that into a fitting tribute.

BlueBalou Fri 09-Sept-22 04:19:40

So sad, but what an inspiration she was!
I will miss seeing that wonderful smile that lit up her face.
Reunited with her beloved Philip, may she rest in peace.

Spice101 Fri 09-Sept-22 01:48:31

Such is the impact the Queen had on world events that the whole world is now in mourning.

An amazing woman who delivered on her promise to serve. her whole life.

I remember seeing her in Australia when I was 5 or 6, we, with 1000's of others, stood on the side of the road while the her motorcade drove by.

RIP Elizabeth 11

AussieGran59 Fri 09-Sept-22 01:41:54

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FannyCornforth Fri 09-Sept-22 00:59:14

Maddy I’m so very sorry for your loss thanks
My mom died just before Diana did. It was extremely surreal, so I can sympathise with much of what you might go through.
Thinking of you

nanna8 Fri 09-Sept-22 00:30:39

Yes- I agree with Mollygo. Inappropriate at this time.

Mollygo Fri 09-Sept-22 00:26:17

If you don’t understand what was inappropriate to say on this particular thread, then nothing anyone can say will affect you.
Actually, by repeating and elaborating on your previous comments, you obviously don’t understand what is appropriate. ??

NoddingGanGan Fri 09-Sept-22 00:12:50

Wow! I insulted nobody. On the contrary, I expressed admiration for the late queen for being the remarkable woman she was. I expressed an opinion that a monarchy has no place in the 21st century and plenty of others have said they have no time for the monarchy. I said that Charles wasn't the person his mother was. That is not an insult, she was such an incomparable statesman, one can be an admirable personage and still not be fit to be mentioned in the same breath. I expressed sympathy for him in the same way as for any grieving relative.
Now, if I expressed any of this in any way that left any reader feeling personally insulted, or with their personal belief system insulted or that I had insulted the personal character of any individual member of the Windsor family I apologise. That was not my intention. But some of you need to look at your judgemental and vituperative responses.
I too, extend my heartfelt condolences to Maddyone.

nanna8 Fri 09-Sept-22 00:11:16

Just read back through this thread and condolences to Maddyone, a very sad time.

nanna8 Fri 09-Sept-22 00:05:53

Whether you are a monarchist or not she has been a wonderful ruler. So committed and so sensible during many turbulent times. R.I.P.

Delorus Thu 08-Sept-22 23:52:19

Such a marvellous woman completing her duties until the very end.
Her body so frail but the smile still strong.
May she now be at peace reunited with the love of her life.
God bless and thank you

Babs758 Thu 08-Sept-22 23:49:34

Such sad news. I was born in the early 1960s and remember as a child thinking how glamorous she was. She always put duty first and was a wonderful example of keeping calm and carrying on.

Feeling sad and upset tonight and, in a way, mourning the current state of the UK too.

merlotgran Thu 08-Sept-22 22:56:55

The rainbows over Buckingham Palace and Windsor Castle were uncanny but also uplifting.

Even Spielberg couldn't have thought that one up.

MawtheMerrier Thu 08-Sept-22 22:44:02

NotAGran55

I think she has gone sad

You may well have been right - or at least close NotaGran
Liz Truss was informed of the Queen’s death at 4.30 and as PM it would have been very shortly after the event,
It explains the grim faces of the Royals who arrived from Aberdeen, I do wonder if they were there in time .

Pittcity Thu 08-Sept-22 22:38:23

I've just had a quick nose at the MN threads as the telly got a bit repetitive. Such a contrast with GN.
We are reminiscing and sympathising. They are worrying what to wear tomorrow and whether they should take the jubilee bunting down. The threads about where the Queen will be tonight and the lying in state are fascinating.