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It’s enough now I’ve got to stop watching the news…

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Shinamae Tue 20-Sept-22 18:53:30

For my own sanity I have made the decision not to read or watch any news on the television because I am getting very, very stressed about what is going on in the world at the moment… And yes it is burying my head in the sand but I think this is something l need to do..
It will not be easy because as soon as I get up in the morning l put the news on also as soon as I get home from work…?‍♀️

Nannagarra Wed 12-Oct-22 20:43:22

I could have written your post Redhead56.

Redhead56 Wed 12-Oct-22 19:33:53

I had to stop watching the news when Covid first appeared on the horizon. Out of sheer fear because it was the unknown until I read up about it. It was depressing and making me anxious which is unlike me but I got used to it and it became a way of life.

Lovetopaint037 Wed 12-Oct-22 18:32:24

My only warning would be NOT to restrict your news to the Daily Mail which is dependant on presenting its own self serving political agenda. Wikipedia does not classify this paper as a news paper as it only contains 30% of truth unlike others which give us 60% !!!! When fed up with news it is only too easy to skim headlines and make decisions of a political nature based on unreliable headlines and easy to skim reports.

effalump Wed 12-Oct-22 15:57:35

Shinamae, I stopped watching MSM, news programmes or reading newspapers a couple of years ago, during covid. Believe me, it is the best thing you have done. My stress levels went down by about 90% almost immediately. If I want to see if anything has changed, I do a quick check on BBC website (not the best place to go) and then get on with my life. One thing is certain, MSM only knows how to tell lies.

Gabrielle56 Fri 23-Sept-22 09:33:10

I fazed out completely during the nightly blurb during COVID! Btw, has anyone seen our "briefing room" lately? Maybe it's been nicked?! Or maybe it's sitting there....filthy...unused....smelly....because ALL the announcements recently from new leaderene being elected to HRH demise were made.....from tarmac in middle of the road outside #10! We told them they'd never use it, but oh no! Doris HAD to pretend was the president............. Can we have our money back?

Gabrielle56 Fri 23-Sept-22 09:28:02

#meanall! I've become a telly addict slowly but surely over last say-30 years? I never ever watched news up to my late 30s ish, but a period living alone meant my TV was my only companion through some extremely dark episodes and it's stuck! I agree about"news" I'm sick and tired of watching while upto 8!!! Journos give us their'opinion' on what's just been reported.....why? I sometimes feel as if I'm tooting in on a private conversation between them , half the time they don't even look towards the camera - and the (great unwashed) audience!!?

Shinamae Fri 23-Sept-22 00:09:50

Chestnut

But if I didn't keep an eye on the news then I'd be worrying that something really important had happened and I knew nothing about it! I have to keep an eye on the news, but not a detailed look.

Each to their own.. I know that the current news is really affecting my mental health so I choose not to engage with it at all..

Chestnut Thu 22-Sept-22 23:59:41

But if I didn't keep an eye on the news then I'd be worrying that something really important had happened and I knew nothing about it! I have to keep an eye on the news, but not a detailed look.

Shinamae Thu 22-Sept-22 23:47:52

Second day with no news. I have to say it feels good not to have current world situations going around in my head and preventing me from sleeping…?

hollysteers Thu 22-Sept-22 19:42:42

I’m not sure if it was T.S. Eliot and I can’t remember the exact quote, but he wrote about couples settling down to listen to the world’s disasters in the evening in the comfort of their cosy homes. An element of schadenfreude obviously.
My MIL every evening, after supper would always say
“Is there a news?” gleefully and of course there was. All the awful things in the world gathered together.
No wonder it can be unhealthy to have too much of it.

Grandma29 Thu 22-Sept-22 19:15:33

I can quite understand why people watch little news or avoid it as much as possible. I listen to some on the radio in the morning and half hour in the evening.
It does seem to some that its burying your head in the sand but feel it’s important to put a limit on it.
I lived with someone who watched mainly just news!
At the end of the day it’s good to be informed but often there is nothing you can do to change a situation.
I try now to focus on some comedy, quizzes and yes I admit soaps( may be crazy but at least it’s not real life!

NanKate Thu 22-Sept-22 17:41:19

I’m am watching every move of that murderer Putin. I want to be there at his downfall. Let us hope that could be soon. ?

Sawsage2 Thu 22-Sept-22 17:38:45

I turned off all the news about Covid (had all jabs) but now turning all news off about Putin, to keep my sanity.

twinnytwin Thu 22-Sept-22 15:27:36

I love the news. I read the newspapers first thing in bed and listen to the tv news for most of the day when I'm at home. I've just been watching the briefing in Parliament about Ukraine whilst having my lunch and found it fascinating. Each to their own.

GrammarGrandma Thu 22-Sept-22 15:16:28

I am a news junky. I wake up to the Today programme on Radio 4, listen to The World at One and then at 7pm have Channel 4 News on the TV. I also get newsflashes from the BBC on my phone. I agree it's depressing and scary at the moment but I want to know what's going on.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 22-Sept-22 14:38:21

Good advice.

grandtanteJE65 Thu 22-Sept-22 14:34:35

Do as we do: we watch the news twice daily on TV. Neither the BBC nor any other news site I have come across update their news or their blogs more than twice in the course of the day, unless something really extraordinary happens.

I would never check my phone for the news, for the simply reason that my eyesight just is not good enough to read that amount of text on a smart-phone screen.

Perhaps I should be thankful that my sight is as poor as it is!

Another thing you might find helpful is not to listen to the news late in the evening.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 22-Sept-22 14:20:42

Your final para sums it up perfectly Madashell.

Madashell Thu 22-Sept-22 14:17:16

So difficult to know which way to go on this; I feel it important to have some knowledge of what’s going on without drowning in too much analysis and opinion.

We have been reading the i newspaper for years (when it cost 20p) and when it was more of a round up of news from Britain and around the world. Then came the referendum, Brexit, changing PMs, etc etc and the paper was pages and pages full of the stuff. The last straw has been days and days of 40 odd pages of the late Queen etc etc etc. If him indoors wasn’t bothered I’d cancel my subscription.

The BBC used to be my go to - the Today programme - but it started to overload on one topic. Just give me the facts and straight forward interviews and don’t have on any politician that won’t answer honestly, without just repeating parrot fashion what the spads have trained them to say.

Is it an age thing when we finally realise that we can’t change the world, and that the world doesn’t actually change.

If I don’t know what’s going on how can I have an opinion? If I don’t have an opinion how do I know who to vote for? Not voting is not an option for me - it took women long enough to get it.

nadateturbe Thu 22-Sept-22 13:53:41

Shinamae

There’s a lot to be said for….... Ignorance is bliss!

I think a big problem nowadays is we know too much about everything.

MaggsMcG Thu 22-Sept-22 13:50:09

I stopped watching the news a year ago. I'd rather not know. I read the headlines a couple of times a week that's enough for me.

PamQS Thu 22-Sept-22 12:48:43

I suffer from depression, so I decided to limit my exposure to the ‘news’ years ago. So much of it was about things that they predicted were going to happen, or previews of what a politician was going to say ‘in a speech later today’, then speculation about how this would affect us all, that bit seemed very uninformative about what was really happening in the world.

I usually watch Channel 4 News, then on Wednesdays I’ll watch Prime Minister’s Questions (but often turn it off, because it contains nothing of interest).

I know someone whose anxiety is set off by the thought of war, watching the news is a bit of a minefield for her.

Shinamae Thu 22-Sept-22 12:26:12

Petera

Normandygirl

That's the problem with the 24hr revolving news cycle now, they have got to fill it with something. even the radio seems to have far more "news" breaks than it did.
Remember when we only had the 6 and 10 o'clock news and a bit of regional stuff after it. No hours of talking heads and experts predicting doom and disaster for us all. I don't remember Reggie Bosanquet treating us all to his views and opinions on the news he was reading either.

I assume you all know about:

"18 April 1930, the BBC's news announcer had nothing to communicate. "There is no news," was the script of the 20:45 news bulletin, before piano music was played for the rest of the 15-minute segment."

I do remember Reginald Bosanquet occasionally dissolving into absolute fits of giggling and I think one time was something about a cat stuck up a tree! ?

mokryna Thu 22-Sept-22 12:25:42

I only listen to and read the news in the mornings, rarely in the afternoons and avoid completely in the evenings enabling hopefully to sleep better during the night. I listen to the BBC podcasts Fortunately to sleep on.

Petera Thu 22-Sept-22 12:13:12

Normandygirl

That's the problem with the 24hr revolving news cycle now, they have got to fill it with something. even the radio seems to have far more "news" breaks than it did.
Remember when we only had the 6 and 10 o'clock news and a bit of regional stuff after it. No hours of talking heads and experts predicting doom and disaster for us all. I don't remember Reggie Bosanquet treating us all to his views and opinions on the news he was reading either.

I assume you all know about:

"18 April 1930, the BBC's news announcer had nothing to communicate. "There is no news," was the script of the 20:45 news bulletin, before piano music was played for the rest of the 15-minute segment."