SueDonim
Glorianny said Perhaps admitting that by using the women's toilet openly and carefully Eddie did no one any harm at all is too much of a step.
Admitting that EI using the women’s toilets did no harm would be admitting a lie. It did do harm. It harmed women by making those facilities unavailable to any women who cared to not share them with a man, even if it was just for a shirt amount of time.
His action signals that women are inferior and can be put in second place and it signals that he thinks of himself far more than he thinks of anyone else.
As for Jan Morris, in ‘her’ memoir, she said openly and plainly that she knew she was not a woman, despite surgery.
Agreed, SD. That is the attitude that underpins so much of this situation.
Women need to know our place, which is to stand back and let the men in - whether it is toilets, changing rooms, prisons, sports teams, hospitals or whatever - and if we speak up we are laughed at, dismissed with childish jokes, heckled or worse.