When we bought our house in London in 1979 we had a mortgage but the building society insisted that we also had a bank loan. So we paid twice. The amount paid to the building society was kept on deposit so it did earn a bit of interest. The reason for this was that the house was about to be condemned.
We also had comments from various people that we should buy a small, safe house and then move onto something we really wanted. We moved to Suffolk in 1986. During the period from 1979 onwards, we knew the interest rate and, like other people our age had no idea that rates could go so high. Whilst doing up the London house all our spare cash went into it and my DH worked 7 days a week, either on his own business or on the house.
6 months after we moved to Suffolk, my job moved to Milton Keynes so I travelled to MK for one week a month, staying with colleagues. This lasted for about 18 months when one of the tax partners who was retiring decided he wanted to take over the work that I was doing so I lost my major source of income. I did have a few clients by then but not enough.
Around that time my DH's main client had moved to the Cotswolds, keeping his shop in London and he decided that a three way trip to deliver furniture was too expensive. I therefore had to get a job pretty quickly. I got one, which I really didn't want and cried all the way home. My DH was very relieved. Luckily he didn't run out of work and eventually the client came back to him, sending large loads of furniture for restoration once a fortnight.
During the period of little money coming in we went without all the things we were used to and we didn't have expensive tastes. I don't think we were alone in having to do without.
Small things that make you feel happy
Good Morning Friday 21st August 2026


