Lathyrus
Male on female voyerism is so disturbing to experience because of the threat of what an excited male might do. It’s the first step in sexual abuse.
Anyone who has experienced it, particularly in a place where you thought you were safe will tell you that it remains with you for a very long time.
Those who make light of it - it doesn’t happen- it’s only a few- it’s nothing much anyway- and yet are so concerned with the feelings and rights of a different group.
Why all the concern for one and contempt for the other? I find it impossible to understand.
There are lots of things which people find disturbing.
If those things are illegal they are dealt with by the law.
However we do not legislate for the possibility that someone may do something disturbing. It would be impossible to do so without infringing on civil liberties. So there is a possibility that young men may be involved in drug activities, but all young men are not routinely tested.
It isn't making light of anything to say instances are few. It is simply stating a fact.
Since the 2019 Upskirting act 16 men have been convicted of 48 instances. This was a specific act to prevent a specific crime and it seems to be successful.
I have no difficulty with laws which protect women. I do have problems with suppositions about possible instances of crimes which don't seem to be happening elsewhere, the wrongful linking of a group of people with those crimes, and legislation which discriminates against them, because of an unproven, and possibly completely erroneous idea. It's how discrimination against groups of people works. I'd liken the idea that transpeople must be subject to the present regulation, and not be able to self ID, because there may be men who will use that process, to the discrimination practised by the stop and search laws against black youths. Both are bad legal concepts that do nothing to prevent crime, have no basis in real facts, and alienate minority groups, both are discrimination.
Before either DD or MG ump on tis I won't be entering into discussion about it. There is no point. My ideas are always misrepresented by both anyway.
I do resent the way that some people will assert that intersectional feminists don't care about women. Of course we care. But we also recognise the harm that is being done to women who don't conform and we know that transpeople are not the enemy. We also see some very unacceptable people and views linked with these ideas.