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MawtheMerrier Mon 12-Dec-22 11:16:08

Three boys aged eight, 10 and 11 have died after falling into an icy lake near Solihull on Sunday
Could have been our grandchildren - tragic

happycatholicwife1 Mon 26-Dec-22 20:29:05

Right you are, Grannyben. Achingly heartbreaking. 🙏

Kate1949 Fri 16-Dec-22 10:01:29

I noticed the other day that there was a Keep Britain Tidy type ad on TV. Maybe they will bring back these sort of ads again

Rosie51 Fri 16-Dec-22 00:17:34

Zoejory

Got to be careful teaching children to wait for the green man.

Young boy at my children's school was knocked over doing exactly that. Luckily not badly hurt

I taught my children to ignore the green man until they had checked that no cars were coming.

Drivers sometimes go through red lights

Oh yes, double check, but crossing on the green man has to be safer most of the time, than chancing it on the red man. Children's perception of how far away a car is, and the speed it's travelling at are acknowledged as poor. My point was it's not a good idea to teach children that crossing against the red man is acceptable or safe. Sometimes you wonder why you bother.

Doodledog Thu 15-Dec-22 21:26:03

Mollygo

That’s brilliant DD. It would hold their attention more than a poster. Add some catchy lyrics about swimming unsupervised in deep or open water and walking on icy ponds and it would cover just about anything.
I could make a whole set of lessons using that song.
Shame it needs to be said.

If you google 'Dumb Ways To Die lesson plan' you'll find some ready made ones. I haven't opened any, and some are for ESL, but they may be able to be adapted. As you say though, you could make your own pretty easily. The concept was designed for just that purpose.

Zoejory Thu 15-Dec-22 20:01:53

Got to be careful teaching children to wait for the green man.

Young boy at my children's school was knocked over doing exactly that. Luckily not badly hurt

I taught my children to ignore the green man until they had checked that no cars were coming.

Drivers sometimes go through red lights

Rosie51 Thu 15-Dec-22 19:44:38

Totally agree Kate1949 Completely different, but today I was waiting at a traffic light controlled crossing. There was a woman with two small children standing next to me. There wasn't a car coming but the 'man' was still at red so I stayed where I was, but she said to her children "come on, be quick" and proceeded to cross. On my own, and with no children nearby, I'd have done the same, but surely teaching children you can cross when the 'man' is red is foolish. It was only a few seconds until he turned green. My children used to love watching and trying to be first to shout 'he's green!'

Kate1949 Thu 15-Dec-22 19:28:52

Adults need to set an example. My sister was walking in the park today, not too far from where this tragedy happened. There was a man walking his dog across the frozen lake/pond.

Mollygo Thu 15-Dec-22 12:30:35

That’s brilliant DD. It would hold their attention more than a poster. Add some catchy lyrics about swimming unsupervised in deep or open water and walking on icy ponds and it would cover just about anything.
I could make a whole set of lessons using that song.
Shame it needs to be said.

Doodledog Thu 15-Dec-22 10:53:40

I think they should be brought back, but they need to be more imaginative than the terrifying ones we used to be shown. The stranger danger ones were nightmare inducing, and some of the accident prevention ones were as bad.

This one was a great success in Australia. It appeals to all ages and is both amusing and catchy, but has a strong message. I think it went on to become a video game as well, which would reinforce the message further.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJNR2EpS0jw

Mollygo Thu 15-Dec-22 09:48:42

Milly12

I remember when there used to be “public information” adverts warning about the risks of crossing the road, jumping into deep water, playing on frozen lakes etc.

So do I, but until there’s an accident like this, you’d hear cries of “Nanny State.”

I spent part of yesterday with Y1&Y2 making posters showing how ice is dangerous if you fall on it or especially through it
They seemed clued up about the dangers, with some good slogans like e.g. Your slide might break my leg, or Slipping isn’t funny, but then spent playtime trying to make slides on the icy field since the playgrounds had been coned off.

VB000 Thu 15-Dec-22 09:31:31

Milly12

I remember when there used to be “public information” adverts warning about the risks of crossing the road, jumping into deep water, playing on frozen lakes etc.
Perhaps they need to come back but hard to imagine this government organising it!!

So sad - and at this time of year too.

Agree - the only public information shown these days seems to be about driving on smart motorways - the Go Left campaign.

The film made by Welsh students in 2009 about the dangers of using a mobile while driving should be broadcast more... it's tragic and very hard-hitting, but it gets the message across.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKU7b6UaJsY

VioletSky Thu 15-Dec-22 07:31:59

Oh no, I thought with the ages some might be the same family, awful

Mallin Wed 14-Dec-22 22:04:04

Just announced on 10pm news that the other lad, 6 short years of age, has died too.

Callistemon21 Wed 14-Dec-22 19:26:15

tickingbird

I’ve just heard on news that the 6yr old in hospital has died. An appalling tragedy and I believe three were from the same family. No words really, just sadness. RIP little one.

That is terrible.

I wept when DH told me, those poor children, those poor families.
😥

Forsythia Wed 14-Dec-22 19:04:01

Tragic and just before Christmas too. These poor families.

Urmstongran Wed 14-Dec-22 19:03:53

It is indeed. Xx

Joseanne Wed 14-Dec-22 19:00:49

tickingbird

I’ve just heard on news that the 6yr old in hospital has died. An appalling tragedy and I believe three were from the same family. No words really, just sadness. RIP little one.

Unbearably sad.

Rosina Wed 14-Dec-22 18:31:45

Truth is, Milly, that no government can save everyone from all potential accidents. I saw a post yesterday criticising a local authority because a pond was frozen over and the writer said the pond should have been fenced off at once 'by the council'. How can they fence off all frozen areas of water? Cars skid, mount the pavement and kill people - do we demand crash barriers along the kerb of every pavement? I would like to think that schools and parents impress on children the dangers in the world, but sadly they will still happen. This tragedy is beyond words.

Milly12 Wed 14-Dec-22 18:23:13

I remember when there used to be “public information” adverts warning about the risks of crossing the road, jumping into deep water, playing on frozen lakes etc.
Perhaps they need to come back but hard to imagine this government organising it!!

Patsy70 Wed 14-Dec-22 18:18:30

How on earth do you recover from such a tragedy?

Kate1949 Wed 14-Dec-22 18:09:24

Yes that's just been on our local news
Poor little soul.

tickingbird Wed 14-Dec-22 18:06:46

I’ve just heard on news that the 6yr old in hospital has died. An appalling tragedy and I believe three were from the same family. No words really, just sadness. RIP little one.

Rosina Wed 14-Dec-22 14:57:58

I could not get the newspaper image out of my mind of the ten year old boy who tried to save the children in the water, and died himself. What a courageous, wonderful child, and what a man he might have grown into. It is beyond words.

Scottiebear Wed 14-Dec-22 13:30:37

Heartbreaking. Poor families.

Bazza Wed 14-Dec-22 13:17:34

I had it drummed into me as a child never to go on a frozen pond, but I did it anyway and fell through, luckily only up to my waist. I still remember the long walk home! I never did it again. Beyond sad for the families.