NotTooOld
Grantanow
I wish I'd had a trial marriage for my first one (and I was 21). The second one (before which we lived together for a couple of years) worked out fine - 40 years and counting.
Looking back, it was quite cruel that 'trial marriages' were taboo in those days, very early 60s in my case. There was no birth control pill then, of course, and girls had it drummed into them that marriage must come before sex in case of an unwanted pregnancy - 'good girls just say no'. Naturally, many couples ignored this nonsense but single parents were very frowned upon and the phrase 'fallen woman' was not unknown in our part of London. Many early marriages came about for these reasons. Things are so much better now.
When are you talking about? Birth control was available from the mid early 60s, and certainly freely available from the mid 60s.
Many of my friends played Russian roulette, and many got pregnant, had babies very young or one or several abortions.
Some, like me, went to their GP and said 'I am sexually active and want to do the responsible thing, please could you put me on the pill'. He knew my parents well, but shook my hand and said 'good for you, yes of course' and kept stum.