Germanshepherdsmum
Person who worked damned hard, yes against the odds and without help. I’m merely trying to say that you can instil a work ethic and desire to succeed in your children and that some Conservative voters not only approve of social mobility and want to see more of it, they are personal examples of it.
When say it’s ‘over-egged’, you imply that I’m lying or embroidering the truth. I don’t lie. You come across as envious of success and what it brings.
I'm sorry you think what I said was nasty. More than anything, I feel sorry for you. Why would I be envious? Everyone I know works or has worked "damned hard", often for much less than the picture you paint of your rewards. Some live their lives against great odds, and some with a lot of luck.
I think I remember you said your mother helped with childcare. Why can't you count that blessing? Not everyone has that help. Some even have to add parent care at a time when they already have the sort of difficulties you faced.
You have enough talent to become a solicitor. For some people, no matter how hard they work, that will not happen. For some, they will be lucky to even be able to become independent. No, I was not saying you lied or embroidered what you said. I can see you are telling your life as you see it. However, I am sorry you cannot see the good things and people in your life.
I have said as little about myself as possible. Personally, I don't think it is appropriate to post our lives online. I have been so lucky in my life and would love to be the "luck" in others' lives. I have many much-loved people around me and have been given a chance to develop because of the inspiration and encouragement offered by those I have met. There have been bumps in the road, but I don't know anyone who wouldn't say that. I have found that some of the most inspiring people have often had the biggest "bumps". I wish for your sake you could feel more satisfied. It is a wise person who appreciates those in life who have influenced their path. Those around us do in everyone's life. None of us will have got where we are on our own.