VioletSky
Sorry, I can see I've over reacted Dickens
The thread was already turning into another row (not to do with you) and it frustrates me how bad the communication gets
Not everyone will agree with me, and some of those people will be trans but
I do think we need the trans distinction in certain situations for the benefit of women and trans people.
I think it would resolve many situations
But when it comes to daily life, what is in other people's pants is no one's business. Not least because other women are actually getting bullied as trans when they are not in toilets and changing spaces. It's happening more and more frequently and when you think about it, bullying in toilets and changing areas for not looking feminine enough, actually has roots in sexism
Basically, what you have just said agrees largely, in principle anyway, with what many on here are saying.
Most appear to accept that transgender individuals should be free to live their lives in peace however they identify, and that only in certain settings "what they have in their pants" is a point where it becomes relevant. Which was the point I made.
There will always be those who are antagonist towards the transgender community - regardless. Those who condemn a trans gender woman for not looking like their ideal of femininity or, I assume, a trans gender man for not appearing sufficiently 'butch'. I come across them on other SM sites - some appear to believe that transgender people are all part of a conspiracy to de-stabilise society for some "woke" leftie re-set which is being engineered to destroy 'the family' by the WEF, or Marxists... or both. It's difficult to explain it because I can't comprehend their thought process. Some just can't grasp that - putting it very basically - both men and women can have the traits of each other's sex in their make up and won't necessarily conform to the stereotype of either. I can only assume they feel threatened in some way by this recognition, I don't know. But there's not much we can do about such people, we can't change their thinking, only prevent them from gaining the upper hand by instituting laws that prevent them from actively harming those that don't 'conform'.
I'm very much 'live-and-let-live'. But there are boundaries which I believe cannot be crossed. And it was one of those that I pointed out. Mentioning them is not an attack on you nor is it meant to infer any thought process on your part.
Thank you for realising that I wasn't attempting to misquote or misrepresent you.
And I'm happy for people to disagree with me and with what I've just written, my voice is just one among many others and I don't have some special 'pipeline' to 'the truth'!