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Should the law on abortion be changed?

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maddyone Wed 14-Jun-23 11:47:30

Following on from the case of the woman who had a very late abortion, the question has arisen of whether the law on abortion should be changed, either to make later abortions legal, or indeed to make abortions only legal at an earlier stage of gestation?
Rishi Sunak has rejected any changes to the law. What do you think?

maddyone Thu 15-Jun-23 15:39:48

Where there is a medical problem there is already the allowance for a later abortion. A member of my family was pregnant with a much wanted baby, but it was discovered during a scan that the baby had multiple problems including having almost no brain. The baby was incompatible with life. The decision was made to induce the birth, in other words, abort the pregnancy. The mother was 26 weeks pregnant. The abortion was entirely legal. The parents were devastated but went on to have a beautiful and healthy baby boy.

An abortion at 32 - 34 weeks would involve inducing the birth, as these abortion pills did. This woman killed her baby. She should not have the right to do that at this stage of pregnancy.

So yet again I will say, the law should not be amended.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 15-Jun-23 15:18:02

Isn’t 24 weeks enough for you?

AmberSpyglass Thu 15-Jun-23 15:10:51

So much forced-birth nonsense on this thread.

AmberSpyglass Thu 15-Jun-23 15:10:04

I emphatically believe that there should be an extension on the current abortion term limits to allow for later anortion.

Jackiest Thu 15-Jun-23 14:52:34

Blondiescot

Jackiest

Blondiescot What does having a caesarean have to do with anything?

At 34 weeks the baby would be born alive and would be able to live the life they are entitled to.

So you would ask the law to force a woman to have a caesarean? Am I understanding that right?

If she does not want the baby inside her then it can be removed without killing it. She is not forced to, she has a choice. Maybe possible to do it with induction I don't know.

Blondiescot Thu 15-Jun-23 14:45:11

Jackiest

Blondiescot What does having a caesarean have to do with anything?

At 34 weeks the baby would be born alive and would be able to live the life they are entitled to.

So you would ask the law to force a woman to have a caesarean? Am I understanding that right?

Jackiest Thu 15-Jun-23 14:07:50

Blondiescot What does having a caesarean have to do with anything?

At 34 weeks the baby would be born alive and would be able to live the life they are entitled to.

maddyone Thu 15-Jun-23 11:00:28

Washerwoman
I was not in any way trying to be disrespectful to the baby or anyone else, but I thought, obviously wrongly, that some might jump on me for calling the baby what it is - a baby. That’s why I used the biological term. I didn’t know she had a name, but I’m glad she has. Strange though, that someone who deliberately kills her baby, then gives her a name.

It’s true Doodle that we all have different views on this emotive subject. And my initial view was that this woman shouldn’t have received a custodial sentence, but I’ve changed my mind, and now feel it was appropriate, although the law used was strangely old.

Doodledog Thu 15-Jun-23 10:27:11

I've read the judgement and I fully understand why the judge came to the conclusions he did. It's possible to understand that, yet on a personal level, feel that this woman did not deserve a custodial sentence. I also respect that others on here have very differing views, and that's fine. As adults, we're all surely capable of agreeing to disagree on very emotive subjects like this.
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Blondiescot Thu 15-Jun-23 10:24:59

I'm not saying I agree with either of those scenarios. I don't think late abortions are ever a 'good idea', but I do accept that in some situations, they are necessary. However, whether I agree with it or not, I still don't think it's any of my business what someone else chooses to do with their own body. As I have said more than once, I've read the judgement and I fully understand why the judge came to the conclusions he did. It's possible to understand that, yet on a personal level, feel that this woman did not deserve a custodial sentence. I also respect that others on here have very differing views, and that's fine. As adults, we're all surely capable of agreeing to disagree on very emotive subjects like this.

Washerwoman Thu 15-Jun-23 10:24:07

No doubt I will get short shrift but today I was thinking about the father of Lily.And I will call her by her name -not the foetus.I am guessing he played no part in her decision.Possibly had no idea he had fathered a child as she had gone back to her estranged partner.As I said previously I'm pro -abortion as the law stands.But I wonder how he feels if he's worked out it was his child ?

maddyone Thu 15-Jun-23 10:17:09

Blondiescot
Your reasoning seems to suggest that you would support using the abortion pill to kill the foetus at 39 and a half weeks. Am I right?

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 15-Jun-23 09:40:12

So basically you support the woman who aborted her child between 32 and 34 weeks, evidently for ‘social reasons’?

Blondiescot Thu 15-Jun-23 09:26:44

Jackiest

A viable baby has a right to life. If you don't want the baby inside you then have a caesarean don't kill it.

What does having a caesarean have to do with anything? And yes, GSM, I completely agree that in an ideal world, any woman who finds herself with an unwanted pregnancy could have an early abortion, but as I have repeatedly tried to explain on here, there could be any number of reasons why a woman may not discover she is pregnant until later on. No matter what anyone says, I stand by any woman's right to have autonomy over her own body. Others disagree - as is also their right. People are never going to be in complete agreement on such a divisive issue.

Jackiest Thu 15-Jun-23 09:12:15

A viable baby has a right to life. If you don't want the baby inside you then have a caesarean don't kill it.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 15-Jun-23 09:06:10

Nothing like The Handmaid’s Tale. As I said, women have the choice to end a pregnancy early on. After the baby becomes viable should its rights not be considered? I’m pro choice, but there are limits. There’s a big difference between terminating the life of a non-viable foetus and terminating the life of a viable baby to whom you will have to give birth in the normal way if you abort it. I feel very sorry for midwives and other medical staff who have to deal with the consequences of that..

Blondiescot Thu 15-Jun-23 08:59:20

Wow. And I thought The Handmaid's Tale was just a story...

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 15-Jun-23 08:50:37

If a woman has chosen not to terminate a pregnancy at an early stage, before the child could be viable, then yes Blondiescot she has assumed a duty towards the child to act as it’s incubator, if you like, and bring it safely to term. If she then doesn’t want to keep it there are thousands who would love the chance to adopt.

silverlining48 Thu 15-Jun-23 08:47:04

I support the current law relating to abortion, but it could perhaps be reduced to 20 weeks as it’s so quick and easy to find out these days.
While late abortion happens which is regrettable-it is very rare.

Jackiest Thu 15-Jun-23 08:39:38

Blondiescot When the child can live outside the womb we can not kill it just because it is still within us. So yes we are a human incubator for our child at first and then we look after them out of the womb.

Blondiescot Thu 15-Jun-23 08:04:20

Jackiest

It is the womans rights to choose up to the point that the baby can survive out of the womb. After that the child has rights as well.

So basically a woman is just a human incubator then?

Jackiest Wed 14-Jun-23 22:46:26

It is the womans rights to choose up to the point that the baby can survive out of the womb. After that the child has rights as well.

Iam64 Wed 14-Jun-23 22:33:52

I believe in a woman’s right to choose. Given the advances in care of premature babies I’ve long felt though, that 20 weeks could be the outer limit, unless circumstances convince the medics a late termination is needed.
Abortion is a subject that raises emotions for understandable reasons

maddyone Wed 14-Jun-23 21:58:12

Childbirth = pain and degradation?
Yes there is pain, but there is also pain relief, in particular epidural.
But degradation, no. The birth of a new life is a wonderful thing.

Anyway, back to the original question. No, I don’t think there should be a change in the law. The law changed a few years ago. The upper gestational age for legal abortion was at that stage 28 weeks I believe. That was because the foetus was considered viable at or after 28 weeks. However, as medical advances were made, and ever younger foetuses were able to be successfully treated, the gestational age was brought down to 24 weeks. In certain circumstances abortions are still allowed legally after 24 weeks though. It maybe that in the future, the gestational age might be lowered again, although it seems doubtful to me that it ever would be lower than 20 weeks as the foetus simply isn’t able to survive outside the womb at that stage. So it seems to me that 24 weeks is about right, as it respects the mother’s right to choose (and she has a whole 20 weeks to consider the situation) and balances that against the right to life for a viable, or treatable, baby.

ronib Wed 14-Jun-23 21:37:10

biglouis what are you talking about- pain and degradation? Have you not heard of epidurals? Perhaps you have forgotten/or just don’t know that having children is the best ever miracle. It’s the gift of life.
I hope you celebrate Mother’s Day and appreciate all the pain and degradation you caused your own mother.