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Fawcett Society's Victory for Women

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Glorianny Sat 01-Jul-23 15:50:18

The Fawcett Society is today celebrating its victory in having the Sun and Jeremy Clarkson judged guilty of misogyny by the Independent Press Standards Organisation. This is the first ever judgement that has condemned sexism in the media. The Sun will have to print a front page apology. The article of course was his rant about Meghan Duchess of Sussex. This is great and momentous victory for women www.fawcettsociety.org.uk/news/fawcett-complaint-about-clarkson-column-upheld-on-basis-of-sexism

Galaxy Sat 01-Jul-23 20:41:17

The thing is those supporting this have to be happy for it to be used against people they value. The BBC gave a platform to drag artists who mocked womens genitals, sorry there is no other way to say that. It's an interesting campaign which I think some womens groups will be looking at closely.
On the other side those who are happy for Clarkson to say what he likes need to think about how they would feel if that article had been written about the Queen.
Its exhausting sitting on the fence grin

BlueBelle Sat 01-Jul-23 20:35:06

Aren’t those denigrating men here guilty of sexism, or is it just a one way street

But we re not degenerating men, just one particular man s way of talking writing and probably being
I work and get on with plenty of men who wouldn’t say anything like he did

GrannyGravy13 Sat 01-Jul-23 20:31:31

I loved Jeremy’s series Clarkson’s Farm

Anniebach Sat 01-Jul-23 20:28:51

Megan Markle mocked the queen - ok

Gloryianny mocked 1950’s housewives - ok

Clarkson mocks Markle - let fires of hell descend

Sorry but hypocritical

MerylStreep Sat 01-Jul-23 20:19:14

I think meghans card was marked when she did the mock curtsy.
Jeramy Clarkson loved the late Queen.

Anniebach Sat 01-Jul-23 19:38:06

This thread started by a poster who so eager to defend Megan
Markle mocked 1950’s housewives

Mollygo Sat 01-Jul-23 19:30:54

I’m really delighted to find that so many on here think that sexism is not OK.

I’ve never rated Jeremy Clarkson, though I did find him a better Top Gear presenter than the IMO self-obsessed Freddie Flintoff.
I’m surprised there hasn’t been more objections to the film he’s said to be copying.
Whilst what Jeremy said was very unpleasant, if no one’s been up in arms about saying that in a film that they have evidently watched and not complained about why suddenly attack him?

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 01-Jul-23 19:19:50

Aren’t those denigrating men here guilty of sexism, or is it just a one way street!

VioletSky Sat 01-Jul-23 19:13:50

Still doesn't make sexism ok

VioletSky Sat 01-Jul-23 19:10:07

Women can be absolutely nasty and personal and really dig deep to find out things to hurt you with... then wrap it all up in a pretty bow convincing others that you deserved it because they are the real victim

Baggs Sat 01-Jul-23 19:05:29

Well said, galaxy.

Galaxy Sat 01-Jul-23 19:00:28

I succeeded whilst holding different views, so it's possible that your views are not linked to your success.
I thought it was a misogynistic article. Controlling the speech of others tends to be a disaster for women. It's generally important to look at the longer term impact rather than the short term impact of shutting up Clarkson

Baggs Sat 01-Jul-23 18:58:48

Some women and some men have unpleasant and even horrible experiences as a result of the behaviour of a small minority of women.

Baggs Sat 01-Jul-23 18:58:08

AGAA4

GSM an ideal world with men and women respecting each other as you have found in your employment is sadly not the case for many women.

Most men do respect women.

Some women have unpleasant and even horrible experiences as a result of the behaviour of a small minority of men.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 01-Jul-23 18:53:19

I’m so glad I enjoyed a career with men who weren’t afraid to open their mouths, get into a lift with a woman, ask a woman out for a business lunch or dinner, hold a door open, offer a seat. I worked with men as their equal for many years. No problems at all despite being good looking in those days if I dare say so. I just don’t identify at all with what’s being said here despite a very long marriage to an abusive man. Despite a struggle to make a start in my career because I hadn’t been to university, I have never experienced misogyny. I have been treated as a man in the same situation would have been treated then. I don’t have a warped view of men despite a very unhappy first marriage. I have no reason to think of men as the patriarchy or the enemy. That may well have been why I succeeded and am less than popular with dyed in the wool feminists than with men. Fine by me.

JenniferEccles Sat 01-Jul-23 18:33:03

Although Jeremy Clarkson clearly went too far with his unpleasant comments, I nevertheless share his opinion of Meghan Markle.

Glorianny Sat 01-Jul-23 18:31:56

You do however come to realise why misogyny and violence against women are found in all levels of society and in organisations such as the Metropolitan Police. Because some women think it is funny and are sorry for men who are "afraid to get into lifts with women"- Well at least some of them know how women have felt for years!

BlueBelle Sat 01-Jul-23 18:26:28

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eazybee Sat 01-Jul-23 18:22:49

Now we just need to work on newspapers expressing any type of discrimination getting penalized and held to account. It's so incredibly damaging.

any type of discrimination. Oh dear again.
The saintly Harriet Harman is joining this organisation, I believe.
She will have fun.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 01-Jul-23 18:19:56

You know, I’m not surprised to hear men say they’re afraid to get in a lift with a woman.

eazybee Sat 01-Jul-23 18:15:30

The piece was crude, lewd and rude.
But a great victory for women? Oh dear.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 01-Jul-23 17:04:43

I’m not a fool Glorianny. I have encountered deeply unpleasant men and was married to one for 23 years. It hasn’t turned me into a crowing feminist. I take people as I find them.

AGAA4 Sat 01-Jul-23 17:00:54

GSM an ideal world with men and women respecting each other as you have found in your employment is sadly not the case for many women.

VioletSky Sat 01-Jul-23 16:57:47

Good news!

This is a massive victory

Now we just need to work on newspapers expressing any type of discrimination getting penalized and held to account. It's so incredibly damaging

Glorianny Sat 01-Jul-23 16:57:40

Germanshepherdsmum

I agree Bodach. I have never been what most here would call a feminist. Probably because I spent my working life in what was a men’s world and got on with them perfectly well, doing the same job and neither expecting nor getting special treatment. I tend to get on better with men than women.

And yes, I find Clarkson amusing.

I'm actually gobsmacked that someone can't recognise that there are men out there who are not nice men, not men they would get on well with, and men who regard the writings of people like Clarkson as justification for violence against women.
Be grateful you haven't encountered them, but try to understand that they do exist. (And you wouldn't "get on" with them )