Doodledog
*However, with 'less choice' who selects the choices? It seems people have many varied likes and dislikes. On GN we read of people who love peanut butter or hate peanut butter, love cheese or hate cheese, love tofu or hate tofu, love veg or hate veg, etc. Who chooses 'the good balanced' foods?*
I appreciate that that is difficult. But I also think that being 'picky' largely comes from having a lot of choice, and if children get used to a limited choice from the age of four or five they will adapt. In my imaginary scenario there would be a choice of two meals, so that if someone really hated something they wouldn't have to eat it, and even if they weren't keen on the alternative they would probably at least be tempted to try it. Time would tell what was popular and what was often rejected.
As has been said, it is one meal a day, and the parents could supplement it on the days their child didn't fill up at lunch. If packed lunches and unpopular food goes in the bin anyway, I can't see what there is to lose, really. At least it would be a start, and nobody would be hungry.
I wish somebody would tell the Neuro-divergent that then maybe my niece wouldn't be in hospital with an eating disorder! My daughter would sooner starve than eat anything spicy (evenly mildly, wet or a host of other things which somebody else (including me) wouldn't bother about. I started off with the mindset that she would eat what was put in front of her if she didn't get a choice...what a learning curve that was!


