Bijou
A little while ago the BBC interviewed a single mother of three who said she couldn’t afford to pay her bills. She admitted that they lived on take away food.
When I was a child in the 1920s, 30, and 40, we never ate out, and the only ready cooked meal we had was fish and chips now and then. School meals were well balanced meat and two veg and there was a third of a pint of milk free.
Nowadays children would not be addicted to fast food if they weren’t introduced to it to start with.
I get so fed up with blaming mothers!
1) if you are banding blame about why is it just mothers who get blamed! Fathers are also capable of cooking !!!
2) so many parents work hugely tiring long hours and are literally too exhausted to chop boil etc at the end of the working day. I am someone who is often too tired to cook properly for myself with a full time job, caring responsibilities for two adults and two ASD children and a toddler every day! and as I dont tend to buy takeaways, it usually leads to me skipping eating at all! That doesn't effect the children obviously, but is still not ideal and is a sign of the pressurised society we live in!
3) the cost of fresh food is often really huge especially if your only source of shopping is the local (expensive) corner shops and a cheap burger and chips will be less than the stuff from the shop! Those of us who live near to large shops and or have a car are very privileged.
What we need is
1) everyone have access to fairly priced groceries
2) proper low cost public transport systems so people can reach and use a wider variety of shops
3) decent levels of benefits that are inflation linked and that allow low income families a decent standard of living
4) properly funded child care so working parents can afford to work for something other than a nursery bill and recognition that with increasing the state pension age there are less grandparents free to look after children while their parents are at work as we the grandparents have to continue to work



