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White Privilege - MET Police

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Bea65 Tue 25-Jul-23 20:15:46

Am so upset and outraged that a mother was arrested with her young son by Met Police as having not paid bus fare…Mother had paid bus fare .. am physically disgusted with MET police
They have traumatised this young boy and CANNOT understand these charges..

MerylStreep Tue 25-Jul-23 20:21:17

Bea65

Am so upset and outraged that a mother was arrested with her young son by Met Police as having not paid bus fare…Mother had paid bus fare .. am physically disgusted with MET police
They have traumatised this young boy and CANNOT understand these charges..

I’ve never had any illusions regarding the MET police.
I’ve seen and heard ( including my own family) too many incidents of uncalled for behaviour by them.

TerriBull Tue 25-Jul-23 20:25:12

Saw it too, awful, particularly the way they were manhandling the poor woman, appalling shock as if their image isn't bad enough already!

Iam64 Tue 25-Jul-23 20:41:11

It was truly shocking

eazybee Tue 25-Jul-23 22:45:57

It was the woman's behaviour that was upsetting her child, not the police. Tactic used by shoplifters when caught; saw it recently in Tesco; all shouting stopped when the manager arrived and recognised her as a known shoplifter with previous.

Iam64 Wed 26-Jul-23 08:08:58

This woman had paid her bus fare. Even if she hadn’t, do we want two police officers man handling a mother in front of her child?

dogsmother Wed 26-Jul-23 09:46:08

I agree the woman shouldn’t have been so aggressive in front of her poor child. Surely a misunderstanding easily proved by showing her ticket instead of ranting and raving followed by an apology from the bus driver if required for not looking properly.
Have any of the posters used these services in Croydon, buses or trains? I have…….

rosie1959 Wed 26-Jul-23 09:53:30

A bit of an odd story why were the police man handing her why was it necessary? As she had paid why not just show her ticket. Did she overreact when questioned.

Riverwalk Wed 26-Jul-23 10:09:02

Ticket inspectors and police work in twos, which is understandable, and I'm all for having random inspections, but is it really a good use of resources to have FOUR men board a bus to check for fare-dodgers?

From what I read she was getting off at the stop they all got on, she had a child, a buggy and shopping so had her hands full - not a great situation to have to get out your travel pass/mobile phone to prove you've paid

I've only seen the one video but based on that I think the officers were very heavy-handed. And was handcuffing her really necessary?

BigBertha1 Wed 26-Jul-23 10:16:17

My Father in law was an Inspector in The Metropolitan Police - he would have been horrified with what it has become.

Maggiemaybe Wed 26-Jul-23 11:15:52

To be fair, we only see a snapshot of the end of the incident, not what went before. The Met case is that they only intervened after the woman refused several times to show her ticket to an inspector, then to a PCSO. That she continued to refuse to show her ticket and walk away when they asked. Why would she do this? Some reports say she was abusive while on the bus, but without seeing the whole incident we just don’t know, do we?

From the man who filmed the incident, claiming to be her brother: Clement says that action must be taken and that he encourages people to film the police in order to get justice. He said: “I classed the woman as my sister. Any black woman in distress is my sister.”

Is this what we want, video vigilantism? What next? Do we want this to happen in our hospitals as well - cameras shoved into doctors’ faces and people ranting and swearing away demanding answers? Could you do your job in these circumstances? Surely we all know by now that selective video clips posted online rarely give a true picture.

Katie59 Wed 26-Jul-23 12:40:12

Bus tickets are the least of the problem there are thousands of cars that are being used without tax or insurance and nobody does anything, another is drug use, just casually condoned.
Cases were the suspect is aggressive from the start usually means the are trying to cover something up.

Casdon Wed 26-Jul-23 12:46:50

Katie59

Bus tickets are the least of the problem there are thousands of cars that are being used without tax or insurance and nobody does anything, another is drug use, just casually condoned.
Cases were the suspect is aggressive from the start usually means the are trying to cover something up.

We have a plethora of observation vehicles checking number plates against the DVLC car registrations here Katie59, vehicles without road tax are reported, and have to take their documents, including their insurance to be checked. They get prosecuted if they are non compliant. Doesn’t that happen near you, I see them very regularly as they are marked vehicles?

Maggiemaybe Wed 26-Jul-23 12:56:37

Bus tickets are the least of the problem

The police weren’t checking the bus tickets, Katie59. Bus inspectors were. The police were asked to stand by in case there were any problems. Which says something about our society.

Freya5 Wed 26-Jul-23 13:59:44

Maggiemaybe

To be fair, we only see a snapshot of the end of the incident, not what went before. The Met case is that they only intervened after the woman refused several times to show her ticket to an inspector, then to a PCSO. That she continued to refuse to show her ticket and walk away when they asked. Why would she do this? Some reports say she was abusive while on the bus, but without seeing the whole incident we just don’t know, do we?

From the man who filmed the incident, claiming to be her brother: Clement says that action must be taken and that he encourages people to film the police in order to get justice. He said: “I classed the woman as my sister. Any black woman in distress is my sister.”

Is this what we want, video vigilantism? What next? Do we want this to happen in our hospitals as well - cameras shoved into doctors’ faces and people ranting and swearing away demanding answers? Could you do your job in these circumstances? Surely we all know by now that selective video clips posted online rarely give a true picture.

Absolutely, and well said. Easier to edit a video, to show what people want us to see, to suit their own agenda. Inciting. Not the whole picture.

Fleurpepper Wed 26-Jul-23 14:01:36

The worst form of white privilege is to say 'ah, they've got such a chip on their shoulder, havent' they'

Fleurpepper Wed 26-Jul-23 14:02:21

And 'If they do nothing wrong, they have nothing to fear' - and so on.

Aspen Wed 26-Jul-23 15:08:41

Ticket inspectors appear regularly on trains.

Witzend Wed 26-Jul-23 15:27:35

Fare dodging is absolutely rife on London transport. It costs TFL many millions a year.
If the woman had paid her fare, why didn’t she just produce her ticket?

I recently had to show my ticket on a train. If I’d merely protested that of course I’d paid, I would never have expected the inspector to take my word for it.

Iam64 Wed 26-Jul-23 15:28:31

Given the huge disparity in stop n search, driving while black, the awful search of the 15 year old girl etc etc I think suggesting this is some kind of set up to ensure film of two male police officers man handling a black woman over possible ticket avoidance is surprising

welbeck Wed 26-Jul-23 15:54:46

i heard this reported on the radio and knew immediately it was a black woman.
as for filming what happens on the streets, yes of course, film everything; why not ?
would we have heard of george floyd if someone had not filmed it.

Maggiemaybe Wed 26-Jul-23 16:47:03

Iam64

Given the huge disparity in stop n search, driving while black, the awful search of the 15 year old girl etc etc I think suggesting this is some kind of set up to ensure film of two male police officers man handling a black woman over possible ticket avoidance is surprising

As I’m the only person to have mentioned the video in this case, I assume that you’re accusing me of suggesting that this was a set up.

As that had not crossed my mind, I suggest that you retract this and apologise.

DiamondLily Wed 26-Jul-23 16:53:16

I've travelled on London buses all of my life, including with children, prams and shopping.

If asked to produce my ticket/pass, I have. They don't listen to "yes, I've paid".🙄

I cannot understand why this escalated into an argument - why didn't the mother just prove she'd paid? 🤔

Fleurpepper Wed 26-Jul-23 17:18:38

DiamondLily

I've travelled on London buses all of my life, including with children, prams and shopping.

If asked to produce my ticket/pass, I have. They don't listen to "yes, I've paid".🙄

I cannot understand why this escalated into an argument - why didn't the mother just prove she'd paid? 🤔

As Riverwalk said 'From what I read she was getting off at the stop they all got on, she had a child, a buggy and shopping so had her hands full - not a great situation to have to get out your travel pass/mobile phone to prove you've paid'

but the thing is, when, again, and again, and again some more- you are the only one who is asked, in the shops, at the airport, in the street, in public transport - again, and again- the only one- then no wonder you begin to react negatively. I have seen it so so many times- the black person being the only one stopped, the only one asked, the only one targetted - and I think to mysel, why he, why she, why them? And how I would feel, when it happens, as said above, again and again, since you are a child.

Callistemon21 Wed 26-Jul-23 17:37:09

but the thing is, when, again, and again, and again some more- you are the only one who is asked, in the shops, at the airport, in the street, in public transport - again, and again- the only one- then no wonder you begin to react negatively

Oh no, that is me. I am white British. I am stopped.
At every airport.