Joseann
Even I would know that joining the RF isn't all about wearing Alexander McQueen pieces and eating caviar every day. If that's what Meghan thought from the media hype, then she is thicker than I thought. ( I think she is actually rather clever!)
Meghan did have months of training for the job before she married Harry, knew that it wouldn't just mean marrying the man, it would mean entering into The Firm and all it entailed.
Harry claims he wasn't happy beforehand either so why didn't they have a quiet private wedding (perhaps in a lovely garden) then both go off to start married life quietly away from the glare of publicity? The perfect opportunity to leave it all behind.
Instead, there was The Wedding, The Refurbishment of The Cottage, the Royal Tours.
Meghan wasn't an innocent young girl, she was an older woman used to the limelight and confident enough in her campaigns for women's rights.
She only had to look to her Grandmother-in-law as an example of a woman whose life was suddenly turned upside down at a young age, and not through her own choice, gaining in experience and confidence.