ronib That is why many councils set up volunteer groups to teach women at their homes the English that they would need without their having to go out to somewhere else. We helped with vocabulary for shopping, going to the doctor and dentist (for herself or her children), talking to teachers about their children, friendly greetings to neighbours, shopkeepers and other people. I even coached the wife of an Iranian diplomat on the words she needed to understand when she was in labour – and I did the actions for pain relief, pant, push, etc. Her husband spoke excellent English and I was one of the first people he telephoned to tell me that she had delivered a healthy son and how grateful he was for my help. However, I think the most rewarding lesson was with a quite large Indian family in quite a small flat. I took a pack of Happy Families' cards with me so that my pupil could work on the names, such as baker, grocer, doctor and son and also get to grips with "have you got…?" and "thank you". It turned into complete chaos but a very happy family when the children joined in, so I left the cards with them.