I think my parents, in spite of being catholic, and we know the dark history the church contained, did at least always imbue me with the notion that Jewish people in spite of being a small minority of the population, tended to punch above their weight in a diversity of talents and I always felt they had an admiration for them as a people, they admired for example as well as other well known Jewish high profile personalities, Jacob Bronoski, when watching that programme he, did "The Ascent of Man", which I imagine went over my head at the time, I remember them saying "He's a very intelligent man, Jewish, so many of them are clever and talented" possibly a blanket statement but they grew up in a time of "the greats of Hollywood" directors, composers, writers, actors who were well represented by Jewish talent. In retrospect, something I find amusing, when they were watching a film, mentioning a writer, composer or some personality on the telly, they would always seem to know who was either catholic or Jewish as if only those two factions mattered from their point of view, my wider family did it too, peculiar to us maybe, I think they were a bit weirdly off the wall sometimes. Recently when I was watching the film "Oppenheimer" and learning he was Jewish as indeed many of his physicist colleagues were, I couldn't help thinking all that talent that Hitler and his Nazi cohorts would have wiped out, how they thought they were the master race God only knows, mere mortals like the rest of the human race in fact just a bunch of wicked oafs with a warped sense of their own importance.
My parents didn't really talk about the Holocaust but I do remember my mother saying how very affected she'd been by reading the diary of Anne Frank, I also remember her telling me how horrified she was when the atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima and couldn't get over it for ages, she strongly felt that the Japanese people didn't deserve it. I know she fretted over horrible world events, I guess that's where I get it from. My dad, although mainly in Libya during the war years, also visited Palestine during that time, I found a letter when going through drawers after his death, that he wrote to my grandmother telling her what a profound experience being there was, and when I visited Israel back in the early eighties they, my parents went again the year after, I remember my mother saying then, "your father really wants to go back there"
When I started my ancestry research at the behest of my mother to find out just where in Ireland the Irish side of the family emanated from, after that I said to her "lets do the other side" you had that French surname tell me about your grandfather" "he was very foreign, and quite Victorian was her riposte" but gradually we pieced more and more about his life, for example he had a clothing factory, and he is quaintly shown on my grandparents' marriage certificate as a "mantle manufacturer" which is kind of text book Jewish, but at that time I was yet to discover that and too late for my mother to have found that her beloved father was half Jewish, I like to think and I'm quite sure she would have been pleased to know that was part of her ancestry.
I think I knew growing up there was a general sort of sniffiness towards the Jewish population, but my mother said people could be sniffy about catholics too when she was a child. I do remember this wonderful exchange in the film "An education" which maybe exemplifies those attitudes. Carey Mulligan's character, a schoolgirl, pulled up before her headmistress played by Emma Thompson who admonished her with this "You're going out with an older man who is a Jew what would Our Lord say" Carey Mulligan "Our Lord was a Jew" Some people seem to skirt over that fact, never more so in how Jesus is depicted in art, fair haired and blue eyed and Aryan, Complete denial he'd have been brown eyed and swarthy and of very Middle Eastern appearance.