OldFrill
Eloethan
I haven't read all the thread but noticed that Helen says she is leaving Gransnet because she doesn't agree with some of the posts she has read on this and other topics. She, in particular, took offence at coolcoco's comments.
The vast majority of posters on this thread have made very mild comments re this topic but obviously some people have different views. I am always sad to hear about anyone's diagnosis of a horrible illness but I tend to agree that there is already too much coverage on this issue.
If you find a site that absolutely mirrors all of your views and values, I should think it would be very dull - and actually I think it would be rather sinister. Sometimes I believe we need to listen to views that are not in line with our own, however annoying or distasteful they may feel to us.
Also, self-censorship often occurs when people are afraid to voice their honest opinions because they may be criticised, ridiculed or ganged up on. This is how authoritarian leaders seize more and more power until almost everyone remains silent.
You couldn't have got it more wrong. Rightly or wrongly Helen was supporting coolcoco, in favour of diversity of opinion but averse to the criticism, ridicule and ganging up on by other commenters that she said she had read on this and other threads.
I don't have an opinion on it but l dislike misrepresentation.
Yes, you're correct, OldFrill
Also, it's not unknown for some new (and controversial) posters to use two usernames and write in support of themselves on threads.
How they do it without getting confused, I don't know, but it happens!