Dollymixtures
I suffered an extremely uncomfortable flight to Barbados for our 25th anniversary and it spoilt my enjoyment of the exciting flight. I was in between a huge man whose arms and middle flowed over the seat arms (and he made no attempt at all to pull them back) and my husband who did his best to move sideways. The chap’s wife was carefully and comfortably sat in the outside seat. I literally could not put my arms at my side and my chest was almost folded in half so I couldn’t breathe!I kept trying to get my elbow behind the big arms but he was not for moving.
I put up with it as long as I could but as I couldn’t breathe, I just had to ask the air hostess if there was anything at all she could do to help! She was able to move me onto a spare seat with other ladies and thereby changed the whole experience. I’m not fat shaming but the couple obviously knew how impossible it was for him to be on an inside seat but too bad, the neighbour just has to suck it up!
Your unfortunate experience Dollymixtures is pretty much why I started the thread, very unfair imo to those who are seated next to whoever is spilling over into their personal space.
Not trying to fat shame, the first time I went to the US, it did forcibly strike me as to how many very large, often young people are on mobility scooters, but would also get off them, in Disney type theme parks and walk about. I don't believe it's always health related, the portions served in some US restaurants are ridiculously over sized and bringing some of those type of establishments here hasn't done our own population a lot of good. I read an article where one journalist posed the question, are people disabled because they're overweight or are they overweight because they're disabled?
With that in mind I take the point that some people have serious health issues that affect their weight. I have an under active thyroid which goes hand in hand with a slow metabolism and feeling sluggish, so I have to be careful as to what I eat I know only too well after that diagnosis weight gain is easily acquired and I do need to go to the gym which I'd put on the back burner since Covid and a couple of other mishaps, but have just started going again.