nightowl
But I didn’t say anything Joseann about people being boastful or others displaying envy or ‘creating barriers to their own success’. That sounds like blaming those not doing so well for not doing better.
I think suggesting that people should ‘explore their own feelings towards the wealth of others’ is unbelievably patronising and spectacularly misses the point that it is far harder for younger generations to succeed in the society we have allowed to flourish - dog eats dog, everyone for themselves, politicians whose only remit is to pocket as much as possible at the expense of the rest of us. There is simply no concept of public service in politics any longer.
I didn't say anything about boasting or envy either. That is the sort of thing that is often read into comments about unfairness. I very seldom mention my own circumstances on threads like these, as they are not remotely relevant. If it helps though, I'm not poor, have never really struggled, I own my own home with no mortgage, and - surprise surprise - have worked hard all my life, and still do at 65. That doesn't mean that I can't see that life is bloody unfair, and that the fact that house prices in particular are insanely expensive is directly affecting those who also work hard but will never have the chance to buy a home. I would not be anywhere near as comfortable if I had to pay rent, as the increased SPA means that I am still waiting for the pension that others got at 60. Many people are facing a retirement on the breadline because the housing market is stacked against them, and deliberate austerity measures make their lives miserable.
Workers' rights have been eroded, zero hours contracts are hampering so many people when it comes to getting mortgages and the security that that brings, people such as HCAs and teaching assistants are having to use foodbanks, and lots of people are forced into dependency (and the resulting loss of control over their lives) by a system that allows employers to pay low wages and have them made up by Universal Credit.
I'm sorry if it makes those who have less money feel that they have failed. Perhaps it would make sense to explore how their negative feelings towards the wealth of others could be changed into something more positively productive for them.
I certainly don't feel that I have failed, and I don't have negative feelings towards the wealth of others
. Talk about projecting! Any negative feelings I do have are towards those who don't understand that austerity is cruel and unnecessary, and think that 'sheer hard work' is exclusive to those who have made a lot of money, or that there can't be austerity because there has been an increase in the number of millionaires.
The Tories are far more concerned about millionaires than about the poor, which is, of course, the driving force behind austerity. In the context of this thread, that needs to be said, and saying it has nothing to do with envy or resentment. I agree that suggesting it has is patronising and tone deaf.