Luckygirl3
I am in a pickle over all this, as I have a GD who regards herself/himself as transgender - he/she is someone I love dearly and would wish them to be treated with respect and kindness. But they pose no threat to anyone in any way.
JKR has every right to state her view and I do not disagree with her - biological sex is clearly immutable, and if the current Scottish legislation makes it illegal to say so then something has gone seriously awry. How do legislators get themselves into this sort of pickle? What lobbies make them feel they must fly in the face of logic?
You've hit the nail on the head, really.
Many women (myself included) have no issue whatever with people like your GD, and had Stonewall not overreached would be continuing to be as inclusive as possible.
It is not transpeople themselves that we object to, but the denial of women as a sex that has used transpeople to push a misogynist agenda. If it is illegal to call Isla Bryson 'he', but not illegal to threaten JKR, the law is an ass. When mothers are 'birthgivers' and women are 'people with cervixes', and when teenage girls have men leering at them when they use changing rooms, when men lurk in public toilets and can't be challenged, when rape (with a penis) is classified as having been committed by women (and people on here use that travesty to inform us that women can commit rape), and there is nowhere that women can go to be with other women and organise ourselves (eg the WI, which used to be a female organisation but now has men making policy decisions) - when those things (and more) happen and it is illegal to complain as doing so might incite hate - that is when people like your GD lose support.
It's not her fault, and it's not fair, but the hatred against women held by so many TRAs and their 'allies' breeds resentment, and people have been expressing our unhappiness with all of that (both the hatred from the TRAs and the resentment of genuine transpeople) for years now. We've been ridiculed, maligned and misrepresented countless times, but the chickens we warned about have come home to roost.