Mollygo, what do I feel about the actual topic under discussion? My instinct is to reject anything that appears to be men bullying women, or imposing their beliefs/systems on them. It has taken millennia for women to achieve the levels of autonomy we experience in the UK just now. We can see from other cultures that this can change very quickly. I grieve for the women of Afghanistan and Iran.
I will listen to and try to sympathize, and help if I can, people in distress, for reasons outwith their control, but the minute they try to assert their rights over mine, I will fight back.
That's a bit of a 'gut' reaction there, nothing intellectual or cultural about it, but that's how I feel. And you did ask.