Freya5
If I am interpreting your comment correctly, then innuendo aimed at your grandson regardless of what it is implying, is obviously going to be unpleasant because it's nearly always disparaging. And meant to be.
So your response is quite normal and doesn't mean you are 'phobic' about anything. Who doesn't want to protect their grandchildren from sly insinuations!
Unfortunately Lammy and Starmer are not alone in their belief in the current 'new speak'. But I think the latter has learned a lesson, so to speak.
I'm hoping that eventually a 'discussion' can be had in a more temperate climate. People have every right to identify as they wish and live their lives accordingly and we, as a society, should be mature enough to live-and-let-live. But if one demographic wants to impose on another and demands that other gives up its rights to accommodate theirs, then there will be problems. And that's where we're at, it seems, at the moment.
But those activists making those demands are a small minority, albeit a very shouty and vocal one.
I wonder how this will all pan out in the next decade or so.
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