Primrose53
Iam64
I don’t believe I’m the only poster finding confrontational posts are becoming more common on gransnet. There was a thread recently asking if people were scared to post. I’m not scared to post. I m less inclined to when personal insults begin to dominate.
Of course views differ. That sometimes mean we see a different point of view we may disagree with without goading.I think I may have started that thread Iam64, mainly because I received PMs from people saying they agree with me about certain things but dare not say so on here!
I do have my own views on things and am not afraid to say so. I have never knowingly been rude or offensive to anybody on here but some people are often either very rude to me or make nasty comments.
If I comment on something (say, holiday lets, of which we own one) then I get a couple of followers on other threads trying to have a dig at me and trying to get the conversation to go that way. It doesn’t bother ME but others stop posting when it happens to them. And all because their opinions are different to mine. Bit childish really
I agree with both of you. For me, there is a huge difference in discussing a topic and having different viewpoints which are expressed in a measured and balanced way and being just downright rude, patronising, and superior. Being rude on a public forum does not show intellectual superiority, rather egotistically driven disparagement. I must confess that when I read some of the rude one liners I lose interest in the poster and regard them as lowering the tone of what could be an enlightening discussion. Back to the discussion............


