Joseann Many of the buy and renovate British buying houses in France were actually second home owners, and we were one of them. Restoration was actually nowhere as expensive as you suggest. Most of the work was done by the owners who judiciously compared the prices of DIY materials in France and the UK and imported or bought local as was most advantagious.
As we travelled back and forth on the ferry, you could tell the second house renovators at a glance. They, generally, owned large and capacious estate cars with roof racks, some even had trailers and the whole vehicle would be loaded to the gunwhales with building materials, gardening equipment, second hand funiture anything that could be needed.
Even when the renovation was complete they still had the same casual air to packing the car.No neatly packed suitcases carefully packed in the backs of cars. Just bags,boxes and anything required for the visit just chucked in the back.
Wem fortunately, bought our second home in Normandy, close to the channel ports and one of the cheapest areas in France to buy a property.
Sadly we are no longer second home owners. We decided that when we were 80 we would sell our much loved home in France, expecting , as so often happens in France, to take a couple of years to find a buyer.
In fact we sold in days, so after 33 years we no longer have a base in France - except we have found a gite, quite close to our old home, with owners next door who are our age and this is gradually becoming our French base. We are still going across to France regulalry and will always live with France as our home from home.