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Costa coffee and milk allergy

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62Granny Fri 16-Aug-24 16:49:29

It is a terrible thing that happened to this young girl, who died from drinking a bit chocolate made with cows milk instead of soya.
But I do think the mother must take a bit of the blame for this.
If I had a Child with such severe allergies I don't think I would chance buying a drink like that. If I did I would be watching the person making like a hawk to make sure it was done correctly. apparently the barista should have shown the mother a chart with the allergies / side effects listed. Surely you would realise the the chocolate would contain milk ?
Also the school would not the the girl carry an Epi-pen surely that is a disability discrimination? But why didn't the mother have one on her? Lots of questions

Fleurpepper Sun 18-Aug-24 12:32:59

gulligranny

I agree with flappergirl, who has succinctly summed up what I feel about this. It is a tragedy, yes - but if I had a child with those allergies I wouldn't dream of taking them into this sort of establishment where I couldn't control exactly what was happening.

We have a gc who has a VERY severe anyphylactic allergy to a common product. And I am afraid that I agree- if the allergy is life threatening, you don't just go to any café or restaurant and just ask for such a product- cross contamination, even when using garanteed without xyz- is just TOO risky. You would have to check the process, the chocolate and the milk- just TOO risky.

Fleurpepper Sun 18-Aug-24 12:33:39

excuse spelling mistake. such a shame quick correction not possible on this site, as on many others.

Galaxy Sun 18-Aug-24 14:25:13

For me it's the responsibility loaded on to someone who will be paid wages not equal to that responsibility. Theres something about that which makes me uncomfortable.

Jewelle Sun 18-Aug-24 14:29:20

I have just been into a Starbucks and ordered a coffee. While waiting for it I was just thinking…….would I trust any of the baristas behind the counter with my life (which is essentially what happened when ordering the hot chocolate)?

Now they all were very friendly and seemed nice people, but my answer to myself was no.

Unless they were in a hospital setting for example, or flying a plane I was on. You get my gist I hope.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 20-Aug-24 13:30:54

I have a friend who has a severe allergy. She goes into great discussions with the restaurant staff about how dangerous her situation is and she would have to be blue lighted to hospital etc....but then doesnt always have her epipen with
her!

HelterSkelter1 Tue 20-Aug-24 13:33:20

Sorry sent too soon. I had read soya milk was used but the chocolate powder mix was probably made using cows milk.
The Costa staff member must feel dreadful as does the mother. A very tragic event.

MissAdventure Tue 20-Aug-24 13:40:48

I'd be wary of somewhere like Costa or Starbucks, because they always seem chaotic.

I think because every other person now has food allergies, (intolerance for some)" it's easy to forget how serious it can be.

Toetoe Tue 20-Aug-24 15:38:40

So very sad to hear this . I was volunteering at a cafe for a few months recently as a barrister. Having never served various different coffees it was overwhelming the first days . I was asked for an oat milk coffee and as I took the money I had a moments panic and checked which milk I had used thank goodness it was correct . After that I always repeated the order back to customer for fear of getting it wrong. Sometimes there are very young people working in these fast moving places . Sadly , very sadly mistakes are made . Even by me

Desdemona Tue 20-Aug-24 19:12:03

Went into a food outlet yesterday with my daughters and 2 out of 3 meals that turned up were wrong. 1 had an American burger full of mustard (a known allergen) and my vegetarian daughter received a chicken wrap. The server said that is what we ordered - but shut up when she showed him the order on her app!!

Sorry to rant on, but I wouldn't feel happy eating out in most places if myself or somebody I was with had a life threatening allergy.

It is so tragic this poor girl has died and I feel so sad for her family.