ronib
Doodledog just like to point out that my husband couldn’t wait to get to work for a rest. There’s a great myth about being a stay at home parent. It’s very hard work.
Yes, working parents do the same things (run the house, bring up children) but do a full-time job on top
. Looking after babies is one thing, but when they are at school, it is very different.
Most working parents take maternity leave, so do a lot of the baby care (I loved it, and didn't find it anywhere near as hard as work), and many work part-time until their children go to school at four, maybe when they are at nursery or playgroup. Others stay at home for the first four years, which still means they can work for long enough to pay for a full pension.
Anyway, I'm not talking about how hard it is, I'm talking about who pays for it. Many people who say they have worked hard for what they have, including for the money gained by their house prices, have actually had public money in the form of high levels of MIRAS to offset their mortgages, and in some cases decades of NI credits so they can be at home all day in an empty house.