Esmay
OO0psidia , yes I fully agree with you .
There are some genetic factors involved as well as abuse .
It has been proved scientifically .
In the case of the third man that I mentioned I do know that his maternal grandfather was a violent man and that his wife and daughters were terrified of him .
His brother was admitted to a mental hospital , his sister
could be volatile and verbally abusive and certainly his daughter
is prone to violent explosions of temper and a son has become like him .
Tiptoeing around this family is an understatement .
Thanks Esmay, that does make sense. It's very sad isn't it.
I have also seen these things run in families. The problem is, people used to "put up and shut up", which only facilitates abuse and ruins the health and wellbeing of those who suffer silently. Although it is traumatic reading all the offences, I am glad for the victims that they finally found a way to be heard, because they deserve it, and they deserve peace.
Things that used to be brushed under the rug, are starting to burst out and people are beginning to realise what a problem there is with abuse. It may not be savory, but the truth rarely is.
Conveniently, Justin Welby is on his holidays while the victims and everyone who cares about the victims is on tenterhooks wondering how they will move forwards.