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Is this a Christmas joke?

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LovesBach Wed 11-Dec-24 10:10:57

Yesterday I read Civil Servants have been informed that they can sue colleagues if they are not invited to Christmas parties - the usual 'hurt feelings' reason was offered as good cause. Does anyone want to join me in an outburst of hysterical laughter?

henetha Wed 11-Dec-24 10:12:10

Seriously?

Ilovecheese Wed 11-Dec-24 10:12:26

Read it where?

Shinamae Wed 11-Dec-24 10:12:52

I will ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Aveline Wed 11-Dec-24 10:21:48

Still laughing

Kate1949 Wed 11-Dec-24 10:31:05

I worked in the Civil Service. I tried very hard NOT to be invited to Christmas parties.

OldFrill Wed 11-Dec-24 10:36:00

Daily Mail
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14176559/civil-servants-sue-bosses-discrimination-Christmas-parties.html

Ilovecheese Wed 11-Dec-24 10:36:25

Ahh

MaizieD Wed 11-Dec-24 10:37:05

If it is a joke it won't be one for long. We'll soon have Gnetters asserting that our civil Service is so woke that they can sue colleagues for hurt feelings...

MaizieD Wed 11-Dec-24 10:41:26

Oh, I've read the article. Please ignore my last post. There is a grain of truth in the OP. But it's not quite how it's been presented in the OP.

TerriBull Wed 11-Dec-24 10:42:15

It sounds a bit like the mothers of children who've been left off little Johnny/Hermione's birthday party list and feel very aggrieved, can't be true can it?

Personally, I'm with Kate, I didn't work in the public sector, but those office Christmas parties, well best to be avoided back in the day, you just knew you'd be fighting off some drunken letch Not a safe space as they like to say today grin but then we weren't accorded such deferential considerations.

Wyllow3 Wed 11-Dec-24 10:42:49

If you actually read the full article is more enlightening. Nothing new, a few past cases going back in time,
Pointing out that parties are subject to the same guidelines as in the workplace daily, etc etc.
Usual D Mail mountain out of molehill who can we bash today.

NotSpaghetti Wed 11-Dec-24 10:51:37

I always said no, Kate
I just said "sorry, thank you but not my thing".
I expect I hurt their feelings!
grin

Nonnato2 Wed 11-Dec-24 10:52:58

I will ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Kate1949 Wed 11-Dec-24 10:53:27

Terribull. No drunken letches at the Civil Service parties I couldn't wangle my way out of. Just a lot of stuffed shirts standing around sipping orange juice and talking about work.

TerriBull Wed 11-Dec-24 11:16:30

Oh God! Kate that sounds awful in a different way, forced boredom inflicted on the employee taking up non working hours, when you could have been letting your hair down and dancing round your handbag grin

LovesBach Wed 11-Dec-24 11:24:21

MaizieD

Oh, I've read the article. Please ignore my last post. There is a grain of truth in the OP. But it's not quite how it's been presented in the OP.

I would say 'grain of truth' is rather diminishing the Senior Political Correspondent's efforts in the Times.

'Civil servants who are not invited to Christmas parties by their colleagues have been advised that they could bring legal claims for discrimination'.

There follows a whole raft of reasons, and advice that they could have an employment tribunal claim. I have presented it as I read it.

Kate1949 Wed 11-Dec-24 11:29:06

Precisely Terri. They used to tell us it wouldn't look good if we didn't go. I loved one chap's reply one year 'No thanks. I don't do enforced socialising'.

Allira Wed 11-Dec-24 11:31:25

Kate1949

I worked in the Civil Service. I tried very hard NOT to be invited to Christmas parties.

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We didn't get invites, we just went.

Allira Wed 11-Dec-24 11:33:13

Kate1949

*Terribull*. No drunken letches at the Civil Service parties I couldn't wangle my way out of. Just a lot of stuffed shirts standing around sipping orange juice and talking about work.

Ours weren't like that at all!
Of course, there was always the obligatory quiz and everyone was fiercely competitive ๐Ÿ˜‚

Allira Wed 11-Dec-24 11:37:27

Why is poor Hermione getting mentioned on threads - and in such a sneering way?
She's done nothing to deserve it! ๐Ÿคฌ

MaizieD Wed 11-Dec-24 11:41:48

I have presented it as I read it.

No you haven't, you put your own spin on it by characterising the reasons for bringing claims as 'hurt feelings'; a good dog whistle term which provokes derision, scorn and condemnation of the claimants.

MaizieD Wed 11-Dec-24 11:44:13

Allira

Why is poor Hermione getting mentioned on threads - and in such a sneering way?
She's done nothing to deserve it! ๐Ÿคฌ

Posh name, i'n'it *Allira ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

What about poor old Johnny? Does he deserve some sympathy. too?...

Allira Wed 11-Dec-24 11:44:58

No!

Is it a posh name? ๐Ÿค”

LovesBach Wed 11-Dec-24 12:19:02

MaizieD

^I have presented it as I read it.^

No you haven't, you put your own spin on it by characterising the reasons for bringing claims as 'hurt feelings'; a good dog whistle term which provokes derision, scorn and condemnation of the claimants.

That was not my intention, and doubtlessly this is an attempt to start a fight in an empty room. Don't have the temerity to tell me what I am thinking. Any of the reasons suggested would cause hurt feelings - I have put no 'spin', I have quoted what was written, and scorn, derision and condemnation of others was certainly not in my mind.