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Marsh family video about the Gisèle Pelicot rape case

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Rosie51 Fri 20-Dec-24 23:56:30

I know lots of GNetters expressed a liking for this family group. Perhaps it's just me but I find their latest rendition tasteless in the extreme. They are a monetised channel and I think exploiting this woman's stunning bravery is sick. I won't link to their offering to the tune of "50 ways to leave your lover" it's easy to find. I couldn't bring myself to listen to more than the first few bars.

MissAdventure Sat 21-Dec-24 11:59:36

Why didn't university lecturer daddy Marsh issue a statement in support of, and celebrating the bravery of Gisele Pelicot, rather than a song??

CariadAgain Sat 21-Dec-24 12:01:49

ronib

I am surprised that the Marsh family thought it appropriate material. What can they be thinking?
It puts them in a very different light. I hope the family sees sense and removes the video as part of damage limitation to their reputation. Asap.

Quite agree! It does feel like it minimises her suffering and the suffering of all the other women who have been raped one way or another over the years.

That family has always shown very bad judgement in my view - but this really takes the biscuit.

Baggs Sat 21-Dec-24 12:24:24

MissAdventure

Why didn't university lecturer daddy Marsh issue a statement in support of, and celebrating the bravery of Gisele Pelicot, rather than a song??

Indeed! I rather pity his students if he's this much of a twerp generally.

Jaffacake2 Sat 21-Dec-24 15:21:59

For those who may have judged this song without really looking at the lyrics. I thought it was a testimony to her bravery .

The problem was not inside her head as she had believed
In some ways it's ingrained in our societies
But she exposed it ,waving anonymity
It was a legal case like no other
In other cases little proof can come to light
It's the victims in the shadows of the demons in the night
But she's standing for her sister's and the wrongs they can't right
It was disgraceful how she suffered
But she will be saving many others.

There are more lyrics to the chorus.

MissInterpreted Sat 21-Dec-24 15:31:30

To me, it doesn't really matter what the lyrics say. Releasing a song - any song - about this just doesn't sit right with me at all.

MissAdventure Sat 21-Dec-24 15:35:59

It's not appropriate to release a song about the terrible abuse of a woman, whatever the lyrics say.

If it was about the rape of one your family members would you be happy about it???

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sat 21-Dec-24 16:06:14

I’ve never been a fan so this just put the top hat on it for me.

Allira Sat 21-Dec-24 16:08:44

MissI and MissA
Well said.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 21-Dec-24 16:16:46

There is absolutely nothing that could change my mind about this song

The Marsh family set out to monetise Gisele Pelicot’s multiple rapes by multiple men.

Disgusting, shameful behaviour…

MissInterpreted Sat 21-Dec-24 16:17:55

GrannyGravy13

There is absolutely nothing that could change my mind about this song

The Marsh family set out to monetise Gisele Pelicot’s multiple rapes by multiple men.

Disgusting, shameful behaviour…

My thoughts exactly. I don't see how there's any other way you can look at it.

Allira Sat 21-Dec-24 16:19:41

Gisele Pelicot is a brave and courageous woman and I is her decision to waive her anonymity.

The Marsh family have tried to diminish this with their tawdry song. They really should be ashamed.

Rosie51 Sat 21-Dec-24 16:32:13

Jaffacake I read the lyrics, which he set to '50 ways to leave your lover', he might as well have referenced '50 Shades of Grey'. In the description to the now taken down video he says it's been 'rushed out on a Thursday evening'. The world has witnessed Gisèle's bravery from the woman herself, on the news, on websites for the entirety of the trial. There was absolutely no need for the Marsh family to give 'testimony to her bravery' by singing about her on their monetised channel.

Jaffacake2 Sat 21-Dec-24 16:33:40

Apology from Marsh family on X, formerly twitter.

"The message we intended from this song -commending Gisele Pelicots remarkable resilience and bravery in waiving anonymity,and utterly condemning those convicted was not getting across,and we've taken it down. At no point was it being monetised. At no point was it intended to trivialize or upset people. We've always covered difficult news stories/ subjects( murders,war,gendered violence) in musical commentaries and don't think anything should be off limits. But we've pulled this one and will assess how to revisit. "

escaped Sat 21-Dec-24 16:34:40

I think the Marsh family are just jumping on a bandwagon with their song.
In the weeks leading up to the trial in France there were many protests with songs and chants, mainly by groups of women. Their purpose was to apply pressure in their own country, in the hope that justice would be proportionate to the acts committed against Gisèle. There were never any children roped into the singing. The Marsh family are irritating, and as someone said, have shown very bad judgment.

MissAdventure Sat 21-Dec-24 16:34:51

Ugh.

BlueBelle Sat 21-Dec-24 17:38:10

They are up their own backsides and should not be involving children
Never liked that or them
There are better ways to show off their family’s talents
This was extremely distasteful

Smileless2012 Sat 21-Dec-24 17:40:38

Better late than never Marsh family, but only just.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 21-Dec-24 17:43:25

An insincere apology only made when they have realised their attempt to monetise this horrific case has backfired.

They are trying to rescue their income stream…

OldFrill Sat 21-Dec-24 17:43:39

^Jaffacake2 Sat 21-Dec-24 15:21:59
For those who may have judged this song without really looking at the lyrics. I thought it was a testimony to her bravery^

Gisele most certainly doesn't, nor do we, need this crass 'testimony to her bravery'. Given they've removed it, and apologised you publishing the lyrics is equally insensitive.

merlotgran Sat 21-Dec-24 18:04:29

GrannyGravy13

An insincere apology only made when they have realised their attempt to monetise this horrific case has backfired.

They are trying to rescue their income stream…

Am I the only one likening these parents to Capt. Sir Tom Moore’s daughter?

OldFrill Sat 21-Dec-24 18:25:36

OldFrill

^Jaffacake2 Sat 21-Dec-24 15:21:59
For those who may have judged this song without really looking at the lyrics. I thought it was a testimony to her bravery^

Gisele most certainly doesn't, nor do we, need this crass 'testimony to her bravery'. Given they've removed it, and apologised you publishing the lyrics is equally insensitive.

Sorry, the Marsh family have removed the video but not apologised.

OldFrill Sat 21-Dec-24 18:26:42

Jaffacake2

Apology from Marsh family on X, formerly twitter.

"The message we intended from this song -commending Gisele Pelicots remarkable resilience and bravery in waiving anonymity,and utterly condemning those convicted was not getting across,and we've taken it down. At no point was it being monetised. At no point was it intended to trivialize or upset people. We've always covered difficult news stories/ subjects( murders,war,gendered violence) in musical commentaries and don't think anything should be off limits. But we've pulled this one and will assess how to revisit. "

Where's the apology in that?

GrannyGravy13 Sat 21-Dec-24 18:27:15

merlotgran they are definitely fame seeking

In my opinion they are as bad if not worse than pushy stage and dance mums

Basically using their children in order to push/sell their political ideology…

Jaffacake2 Sat 21-Dec-24 18:33:39

OldFrill

^Jaffacake2 Sat 21-Dec-24 15:21:59
For those who may have judged this song without really looking at the lyrics. I thought it was a testimony to her bravery^

Gisele most certainly doesn't, nor do we, need this crass 'testimony to her bravery'. Given they've removed it, and apologised you publishing the lyrics is equally insensitive.

I posted the lyrics because several people had said they hadn't listened to the song but still judged it. Don't think I was being insensitive.

Sarnia Sat 21-Dec-24 18:39:23

Lyrics apart, a song undermines what Gisele Pelicot has been through and when someone is cashing in as well, it is totally wrong and insensitive.