Doodledog
And I know that VAT exists, but it is just not the same to go to the shops with money someone else has earned and spend it, and then claim to have 'paid tax. You haven't. You have facilitated someone else's purchase tax.
You're not viewing this the same way as I do.
We're a couple for life - two as one. I wash our landry, cook our meals, clean our home, keep our garden up, walk our dog(s), purchase our needs.
He does as much as I do, now as he slows down at work, he's not one to ever sit idle whilst I work. But for most of our marriage (I was 16 and now 80, he was 18 and now 82) he worked 60-70 hour weeks, had no time to help. I happily did everything related to our home, 4 children. I do his receipts, get the business papers ready for our accounting.
I've not earned money, I'm a sahm. However, I've facilitated his earning. Because I was at home doing/raising, I allowed his long hours at work. Everything we own and all the money we spend is half mine.
I pay VAT and other taxes with our money. I pay no income tax.
There is currently, no acceptable taxing solution for you and others who view sah-people as non-workers. I've many ideas, nobody asks. 