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But all backgrounds mix these days and share much in common. In almost all the things I do, the people I am mixing with come from all kinds of different backgrounds, rich and poor, joined by a common interest.
We went to a local smart restaurant recently for our wedding anniversary and were followed into the car park by a chauffeur driven Rolls Royce. The people who got out of it were stereotypical East End. Cockney accents, loud, one elderly lady was wearing crocs. No one took any notice. They were obviously local and regulars at the restaurant.
On our village history society, the local postman has done more extensive research into the village history than anyone else and written several articles on it. I have also been on the committee of a local environmental group with a peer of the realm. Lord X, he had no great estate and had always had to earn his own living, even though he had been to one of the great public schools.
Casdon You have it the wrong way round. It is how much money people have that governs their education and social circle. As for family background, when I look round the people in my social circle i see a wide cariety of backgrounds. My background lies in the Irish emigrants that came to this country during the famine or enlisted in the army, One of my grandfathers was a dock worker. Other friends come from several generations of middle class professionals. DH's father worked on the assembly line in a car factory.
I went to see my GP today. It was someone I hadn't seen before. He stood up when I came in, a big shambling man dressed in blue scrubs much like a road worker, he had long dreadlocks, an accent that was pure estuary, the kindest face and I felt very comfortable with him. Like me he is of immigrant stock, although whether his is Africa or the Caribbean I am not sure, but, like me, his family have been British for multiple generations. Anyone care to slot him into a class? Was he privately educated or made good from an inner city school? Is his father a doctor or a bus driver or anything else. Does it matter?
Class is dead, I do not understand all the nostalgia for it.
Oh I do agree, I do wish “class” was dead though, I do see it rearing its ugly head though, my DH is Irish, his Dad was a labourer prior to moving to London in the early sixties, as a bus driver, whilst attending night school.
My dear parents definitely considered themselves middle class, voting Tory, living a very nice life in a lovely big house in a nice area.
When I left home, I discovered the “real world” and I lived a very different life.
Now I have a lovely diverse set of amazing friends, from very different backgrounds and levels of income, all good people.

. He might make it out of being working class based on income, too, but he wouldn't be the first person to spring to mind if asked to name a representative of the British upper class (or middle class, come to that) and I doubt he'd mind me saying so.