nanna8
My first thought was how dreadful and that a 19 year old would have no clue about families and children. On mature consideration, I think I was being ageist because some 19 year olds have wisdom beyond their years and this person may possibly ( hopefully ) be one of them. I was married at 19 looking after a home and studying hard and I don’t think I was particularly immature.
Do you honestly think you could have made decisions about other people's children? By definition, most of these children have complex needs. Some have multiple learning needs, while others come from families where they are not being given the support they need. In some cases, there will be abuse and tough decisions will be needed. Did you really have experience to deal with that? This 19 year old is a university student (studying computer science) and attended a selective, independent school. Where has he gained experience to deal with people and sensitive issues, never mind oversee a multi-million pound budget?