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Would you fly a flag for your country?

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Sago Sun 24-Aug-25 19:27:43

I was born in England but am of Irish heritage, I am proud of both England and Ireland.

My daughter lives on the outskirts of a village that has scores of union flags flying, it lifts my spirits as we drive in.

On a recent trip to Norway I loved seeing all the homes flying their flag and wondered why we don’t have same sense of patriotism.

I will fly a flag, I’m going to order a pole and we will fly the flag my husbands grandparents flew on their flagpole on VE Day.

I am not a racist, our grandchildren are mixed race, we have friends who are Congolese, Sri Lankan, Egyptian etc.

I am however British and very proud, we need to reclaim our flag and our pride.

Allira Thu 28-Aug-25 12:31:38

I do remember the extreme Welsh Nationalists, Meibion Glyndŵr, Pantglas.
I saw it from both sides - friends from London bought a derelict cottage which no-one wanted in the middle of a forest and were worried it would be fire bombed. It was fine.
A very distant family member was a Welsh Nationalist - more mouth than action!

Casdon Thu 28-Aug-25 12:18:31

I’m sure Pantglas was correct from her experience, Wales is like England in that respect MaizieD, the north and south have different sub cultures, the Gogs and the Taffs - although all Welsh people are proud of being Welsh.

MaizieD Thu 28-Aug-25 12:12:39

Allira

Pantglas2

It didn’t used to be Oreo! I remember the sixties when flying the Draig Goch labelled you a Welsh Nationalist/Plaid Cymru supporter.

We rescued our flag in Wales by everyone flying it…

That more or less sums it all up, Pantglas!!

It 'would' have summed it up if Casdon's post hadn't contradicted it.

Anniebach Thu 28-Aug-25 12:09:16

I took the Welsh Flag to Cardiff Arms Park in the 50’s and placed it in window and garden for the investiture of the Prince of Wales . I was living in South Wales

Allira Thu 28-Aug-25 12:03:05

Pantglas2

It didn’t used to be Oreo! I remember the sixties when flying the Draig Goch labelled you a Welsh Nationalist/Plaid Cymru supporter.

We rescued our flag in Wales by everyone flying it…

That more or less sums it all up, Pantglas!!

Casdon Thu 28-Aug-25 12:02:17

The Welsh flag has always been flown a lot in South Wales though Pantglas, Plaid never really took a hold here until much more recently, but rugby is so strong that there’s a flag epidemic on match days - we’ve still got an ancient flag, which hung outside the house on match days when my husband was a boy in the fifties, it’s the type where it was all sewn on pieces rather than printed like they are now.

Pantglas2 Thu 28-Aug-25 11:43:11

It didn’t used to be Oreo! I remember the sixties when flying the Draig Goch labelled you a Welsh Nationalist/Plaid Cymru supporter.

We rescued our flag in Wales by everyone flying it…

Oreo Thu 28-Aug-25 11:19:59

Pantglas2

I’ve just returned from Llandudno and lamp posts and bedroom windows are bedecked with🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 - I wonder if that’s a reaction to the 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 that appeared on the roundabout earlier this week?

But… Welsh flag flying is considered just fine by some on here it’s only the English flag they object to.🤷🏼‍♀️

foxie48 Thu 28-Aug-25 10:48:19

GG13 I don't think either of the two parties in government since August 2021 have covered themselves in glory dealing with this issue and I have not attempted to apportion blame. I stand by what I actually posted, ie it has been handled shamefully.

Pantglas2 Thu 28-Aug-25 10:39:49

I’ve just returned from Llandudno and lamp posts and bedroom windows are bedecked with🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 - I wonder if that’s a reaction to the 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 that appeared on the roundabout earlier this week?

MayBee70 Thu 28-Aug-25 10:10:09

It’s a complete mess between my house and my sons with red crosses being painted all over the place. How shabby and messy it looks.

Allira Thu 28-Aug-25 10:07:42

StripeyGran

Do you honestly think that within the utter chaos of that country that people fall into need little piles?

The good guys get on a plane and come here with their families and the baddies are in boats?

I would suggest, infact I know, life if way more complicated than that.

Farage makes me heave. Ripping up the Human Rights Act.

What on earth has this country become? Fly a flag, I don't think so.

What on earth has this country become? Fly a flag, I don't think so.

Would you think of emigrating to somewhere you would feel more at ease?
A genuine question, we are a family of emigrants and immigrants.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 28-Aug-25 10:07:08

MaizieD yes you are correct, and I apologise.

My excuse is that I am surrounded by builders, have a splitting headache and using GN as distraction therapy until I go out to a petting zoo with DD and GC.

MaizieD Thu 28-Aug-25 10:03:26

We had this conversation at the time when Afghanistan was in the headline news..

The correct term for a person from Afghanistan is Afghan. Afghani is the name of the country's currency and using it to refer to people is considered incorrect and sometimes offensive.

shunculture.com/article/what-do-you-call-a-person-from-afghanistan

Primrose53 Thu 28-Aug-25 09:52:23

Germany has had enough and 15,000 afghans are listed for deportation. Some have already left and were paid €850 to leave.

There are flights booked to loads of other countries too.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 28-Aug-25 09:27:52

foxie48

Many Afghans fled the country without their papers and why were there still 22K awaiting a decision? The decision to close the schemes was political not humanitarian, if people were eligible in 2021, they were still eligible in 2025.

You will have to ask Sir Starmer why he closed the scheme.

UK stopped its combat operations in 2014, after that time we were only there to train Afghani’s, in a non combatant capacity.

Afghanistan was always going to be difficult to sort out, and like I posted up thread some Afghani’s worked for both sides,.

The security of U.K. citizens is or should be always paramount for any government.

foxie48 Thu 28-Aug-25 09:20:18

Many Afghans fled the country without their papers and why were there still 22K awaiting a decision? The decision to close the schemes was political not humanitarian, if people were eligible in 2021, they were still eligible in 2025.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 28-Aug-25 09:09:41

grrr! autocorrect gremlins with should read withdrawal

GrannyGravy13 Thu 28-Aug-25 09:08:56

foxie the ARAP closed to new principal applications at 3pm 1st July 2025.

Family member applications can still be accepted under certain conditions.

The U.K. completed its with from Afghanistan in August 2021.

Afghanis have had four years to apply.

foxie48 Thu 28-Aug-25 09:02:18

Both the ARAP and ACRS schemes were closed with a few hours notice. 34,000 Afghans had been resettled but there were still 22,000 outstanding applications waiting for a decision. They were left with no legal route to use so it is clear that many will be using routes that are not legal. There is no data with regard to those arriving by small boat and given asylum who would have been eligible for settlement under either ARAP or ACRS but it is fairly safe to assume that there are Afghans arriving in this way.

Caleo Thu 28-Aug-25 08:41:45

MollyNew

I've just caught up with this thread and I've only read the first two pages and the last one so I might be repeating something that's already been said.

We've started with a thread about the George Cross flag and ended up with Reform UK and immigration. I remember many years ago the George Cross flag being appropriated by skinheads and the National Front who caused a lot of division in the community. It now seems to me that the rise of far right thinking has brought this symbol back due in part to nasty keyboard warriors who can now marshall the old racists and recruit a new generation. The odious Farage has of course tapped into this and can sow the seeds of what he referred to yesterday as social unrest in order to further his own ambitions. It's not just flags on flagpoles, it's George crosses being painted on zebra crossings and islands in the road.

History tells us that in order to thrive, the far right needs someone to blame and we can now see this happening again. Farage has no other policies other than immigration and whilst he talks about illegal immigration, his rhetoric is now leading people to racism becoming mainstream and directed at people whose parents and grandparents were legal immigrants.

Some of the comments on the Daily Mail regarding the Notting Hill Carnival were horrific but those who wrote them forget that the Windrush generation were invited here by our government to rebuild Britain. In effect they're saying "your grandparents came here legally but they've all retired so you can all clear off back to where they came from".

In Wolverhampton this week 2 elderly Sikh taxi drivers were seriously assaulted by youths at the railway station and these types of situations are increasing.

Scary times.

Far -right rowdies and Farage have spread their venom all over those brave flags that once signalled happy holidays and innocent patriotism.

StripeyGran Thu 28-Aug-25 08:19:27

Do you honestly think that within the utter chaos of that country that people fall into need little piles?

The good guys get on a plane and come here with their families and the baddies are in boats?

I would suggest, infact I know, life if way more complicated than that.

Farage makes me heave. Ripping up the Human Rights Act.

What on earth has this country become? Fly a flag, I don't think so.

MaizieD Thu 28-Aug-25 08:09:37

CariadAgain

foxie48

Sadly it was such an undignified scramble to leave Afghanistan that many Afghans were treated shamefully despite their years of service to the British. The accidental release of data compounded the issue and frankly if things had been handled properly no Afghan people,who worked for us, should have had to walk long distances and risk their lives in small boats. It's been a disgraceful mess.

I wasn't aware any "Afghans who worked for us" came in the illegal migrant route. Have you got evidence of this?

Do you have evidence that they haven't?

On the other hand, we have this BBC story, from May of this year, which doesn't seem to have attracted much attention but has the makings of a scandal:

A UK Special Forces officer personally rejected 1,585 resettlement applications from Afghans with credible links to special forces, newly released documents say.

The files, disclosed by the Ministry of Defence in court on Thursday, show the unnamed UKSF officer rejected every application referred to him in the summer of 2023, in what was described as a "sprint".

The MoD told the court that the officer may have been connected to matters under examination by the ongoing inquiry into alleged war crimes committed by the SAS.

In other words, these people were blocked because of their potential to give damaging testimony against sections of the British army.

I could see that these Afghans might well try their chances on small boats.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cev40r9yve4o

CariadAgain Thu 28-Aug-25 07:56:10

foxie48

Sadly it was such an undignified scramble to leave Afghanistan that many Afghans were treated shamefully despite their years of service to the British. The accidental release of data compounded the issue and frankly if things had been handled properly no Afghan people,who worked for us, should have had to walk long distances and risk their lives in small boats. It's been a disgraceful mess.

I wasn't aware any "Afghans who worked for us" came in the illegal migrant route. Have you got evidence of this?

foxie48 Thu 28-Aug-25 07:47:35

Sadly it was such an undignified scramble to leave Afghanistan that many Afghans were treated shamefully despite their years of service to the British. The accidental release of data compounded the issue and frankly if things had been handled properly no Afghan people,who worked for us, should have had to walk long distances and risk their lives in small boats. It's been a disgraceful mess.