Galaxy
Oh I am not religious, so I don't mind a bit of sinning
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I suspect that is deliberately missing the point
. I am not religious either, but my point, if I really need to spell it out, is that 'pride' is not necessarily the good thing that is suggested by the concept of 'pride in one's country'.
My understanding is that pride was the original sin - the notion that individual feelings and desires are above all else (including God if you believe in one), and it is considered 'deadly' because it leads to other sins, such as greed, avarice, anger and so on. It is not necessary to be religious to understand that concept, is it?
In any case, I think it's understandable to feel lucky to live here. I certainly do. I feel glad that I was born in a traditionally tolerant country, with all the freedoms we still have. I don't want to live anywhere else (and would feel the same if I were rich as Croesus and paying a lot of tax).
But what right do I have to feel pride in the things that were mentioned upthread (education of women and non-execution of gay people)? Or in anything else that underpins the fact that I still feel lucky and glad to be here? I didn't make those things happen, much as I am delighted that someone did. The way 'pride' is being used on this thread seems to me a perfect example of how it leads to other 'sins' (or whatever you want to call them, I won't nit-pick) such as intolerance of others, exclusivity and lack of respect for our fellow humans.
If I flew a flag it would be to show allegiance to a group. Should I feel it necessary to parade my allegiance to the UK (or England, as I am English) then of course I would - why not? It would be akin to wearing a football scarf or a rosette in a particular colour during an election campaign - it's a symbol of that allegiance used to show those 'on the other side' that there is strength in numbers. I would be 100% behind Britain in the event of a war, so would fly a flag then (although it would be in the hope that the enemy never gained enough ground to set eyes on it).
IMO, however, the idea that allegiance to Britain is synonymous with turning away people who are fleeing war or persecution is fundamentally flawed. If there were more honesty about this, and those who want to burn down hostels and frighten refugees had a flag of their own I certainly wouldn't fly that one, and I am deeply unhappy with the way the values of those people are being subsumed into the values that make me glad to live in the UK.