Sadie5803
If you can't afford children, then dont have them, its call takeing responsibility for yourself and not expecting other people to pay for them, hubby and I worked all our lives, had 2, couldn't afford anymore.
It’s a good rule for those deciding to have children, but unfortunately, circumstances change, bereavement, divorce, job loss etc. which means that what was correct at the time of procreation doesn't mean it will always work that well.
Deliberately having more children when you can’t afford the ones you already have is a different matter.


