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Quotation help

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Ariadne Sun 14-Aug-11 19:18:59

Wasn't sure where to post this but thought people here might know! I'm looking for a quotation, the gist of which is: "If you do someone a good turn, forget it immediately. If someone does you a good turn, remember it always." Any ideas, fellow pedants?

grandmaagain Sun 14-Aug-11 23:13:33

Can"t help with that one, but this one is common in my house.
"If I"m right no one remembers, if I"m wrong no one forgets" wink

grannyactivist Sun 14-Aug-11 23:56:41

Hello Ariadne. The following is one of my favourite quotes, is it the one you're thinking of?
Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting. (Elizabeth Bibesco)

Ariadne Mon 15-Aug-11 11:46:39

Thank you Grannyactivist - that's the one! And, Grandmaagain - don't we all understand that one.......

grannyactivist Mon 15-Aug-11 11:52:44

grin
Elizabeth Bibesco was a really interesting character. She was the daughter of a Prime Minister (Asquith I think) and married an East European Prince. She was quite outspoken in her views and her early ideas on the marriage of femininity with intellect were way ahead of her time.