I'm glad it's not just me who rages at the cupcake invasion - horribly over deocrated monstrosities. Thankfully my family still prefer the good old fashioned bun! One of my favourite books is The Classic Slum by Robert Roberts, all about growing up in Salford in the early years of the century. he describes how his harassed mother, passing through the house to go and serve in the little shop, would call to her children - Bun? Banana? Either, neither, both? This became a rallying cry adopted by my own family, and still in use.
Don't get me started on muffins - just over big buns who think too much of themselves.