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mrsmopp Sun 19-Aug-12 23:40:31

Where did SO come from - as in "I am SO not going there" -
"I am SO not into you" etc anyone else noticed this?

Annobel Mon 20-Aug-12 17:35:37

Somehow couldn't get it to work, but if it was OE, I doubt if I could speak it, even though at one time I could read and write it and - jingl what's wrong with saying one studied it?

JO4 Mon 20-Aug-12 17:36:43

Nothing at all. (grin)

JO4 Mon 20-Aug-12 17:37:33

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Greatnan Mon 20-Aug-12 18:29:40

Why the caustic remark, jingle?

soop Mon 20-Aug-12 18:34:29

I'm off. Back with you lot tomorrow. Bye for now. smile

Anagram Mon 20-Aug-12 18:36:18

I'm sure it was just your dry sense of humour, wasn't it jingl?

Greatnan Mon 20-Aug-12 18:56:29

grin

JO4 Mon 20-Aug-12 18:58:06

Wot caustic remark? [innocent]

jeni Mon 20-Aug-12 19:28:02

jing was that Saxon English? I know it wasn't medieval because that's like my native black country!

Annobel Mon 20-Aug-12 22:32:49

I didn't know they still spoke Middle English in the Black Country. Mostly I've just passed through without stopping. shock

soop Tue 21-Aug-12 14:20:56

grin

baNANA Tue 21-Aug-12 14:27:05

Another Americanism which has crept in, people who go into coffee shops and ask "can I get a latte, flat white etc." rather than "can I have" it also seems to me if you ask anyone under 30 "how are you?" they tend to answer "I'm good" I feel like responding wasn't asking about your behaviour!

Nonu Tue 21-Aug-12 14:30:04

Have I read this before ? feels like Dejavu smile

Nonu Tue 21-Aug-12 14:33:04

When asked how I am I always say I"m good , short and to the point and also I feel better than reeling off a litany of complaints . Perhaps just me . sunshine

Greatnan Tue 21-Aug-12 14:39:28

Nonu - the answer used to be 'well', not 'good', which is just as short!

Greatnan Tue 21-Aug-12 14:41:08

And you have read most of this before - without checking every post since the forum's inception many new members would not realise that this is a perennial thread! It will come round again, be sure of it.

JO4 Tue 21-Aug-12 14:47:28

baNANA my younger GS always answers with "I'm good" when I ask him how he is. I answer with "I'll be the judge of that", which always confused him as he's only seven! grin

JO4 Tue 21-Aug-12 14:48:06

'confuses' not 'confused'

Nonu Tue 21-Aug-12 14:53:11

Your point , greatnan ?

janthea Tue 21-Aug-12 14:55:13

If we are going to be picky - it should be 'may I have' rather than 'can I have', shouldn't it?

baNANA Tue 21-Aug-12 15:08:59

JO4 aaaaah cute for a 7 year old.

baNANA Tue 21-Aug-12 15:10:13

janthea, meant to say "may I have", can I have would be a bit rude.

Bags Tue 21-Aug-12 15:15:46

I avoid the mays and cans by saying "I'd like a ... please". Or maybe "Could I have a ...?" I'm more concerned about being understood than the grammar being correct.

Similarly, since I understand what the response "good" means when I ask how someone is, it doesn't bother me in the least. Language is for communicating. If it does the job, why by picky? I think clarity of speech and articulation (same thing?) are more important than a person's particular choice of diction, which latter is probably driven by whatever is fashionable in their social milieu anyway.

Greatnan Tue 21-Aug-12 15:16:41

What is my point about what, nonu? You commented that you thought you had read some of this before and I tried to be helpful. (Shakes head resignedly).

Nonu Tue 21-Aug-12 15:23:29

I would never say I am well , it sounds too much like an old maiden aunt , or one who thinks like one anyway . I must say fine , depending on my mood