I am happy to receive an invitation to an event, which I may or may not attend, and I am also ok with being invited to something, again attendance is not guaranteed, but being a fairly polite person, if the INVITATION states RSVP, then of course I will.
But if someone says "I will send you an invite" aaaarrrggghhh!
Sadly the English language is being dumbed down. I also hate invites. My other pet hates are stadiums instead of stadia and "come round to mine". It's just plain lazy and the BBC is as bad as anyone
Newspaper headlines in this part of the world often use statements like "....... on the Increase" instead of "Increasing", for example. It really annoys me.
Many uses of language can irritate, but our American cousins are entitled, I think, to their own pronunciation and vocabulary, just as different parts of the UK and most countries have vocabulary differences. On the question of getting an "invite", I'm more worried about not being asked.
Bad grammar , inaccuracy and tautology are my bugbears . But abbreviations are okay ( OK even ) .... bet you use bus , pram , and many others daily ( NOT " on a daily basis" , note )
This is the trouble with a living language; it evolves. My aged MiL used to say should where I say would, and ought where I say should. Then there was may, might and could. My bug bear is swapping Me and I - me and my friend are going out: save some space for her and I.
I've just read a rather tongue in cheek menu, one item was "a selection of sammiges". It was intended to be humourous. It's better than the dreadful Australian sanger.
I think we've all been here before. Isn't there a pedants' corner somewhere? Add me to it. I know I've mentioned "should of", "could of" as particular irritants. Another is "different to" instead of "different from". Surely if a thing is different it is moving away from something, whereas "similar to" is moving towards. How about "like" which seems to mean anything now? I count the "y'knows" when sports people particularly are being interviewed - 15 once! I still didn't know.
Well ladies, I think "sarnie" originates from my home Town Liverpool, its been used there for years, the same for "lippy".Had to laugh when my Husband, from Sweden, asked for "sarnies" at a place, he thought this was the correct word, the gentleman serving politely said " do you mean sandwiches Sir" I like an invitation!
What about that rather superior young woman on the TV advertisement for some computer or other who says that she has 'summitted' Everest? Surely one reaches the summit, or attains the summit. I know that I'm an old pedant, but this one really grates on me! Maybe I'm just jealous, because I find it difficult even to 'summit' the stairs to my flat!
I am not bothered whether I have an invitation or an invite - what I dislike is the word "wiv" instead of with, and when men insist on telling everyone about their "prostrate" trouble...
I hate the use of "Brits" instead of British. My biggest gripe however is people qualifying unique, Something is unique or it isn't , hearing "quite unique or very unique" drives me mad!
I loathe 'invite' too; unfortunately my brainfog is fast descending this afternoon, otherwise I am sure I could think of many other words that irritate or even flat out annoy me!
'Invite' doesn't worry me - the words that really get my goat are 'authored', 'medalled', the use of 'myself' instead of 'me' or 'I'. also hate 'shout out'.
I know I'm turning into a grumpy old bag but frankly I'm beyond caring now
I always thought of invite being lazy speech, as Uni, sarnie etc as someone mentioned. Overall though I wouldn't let anything like that bother me EXCEPT the use of lend instead of borrow - as eg ''Can I lend your pen'' - grrr.
I too hate "babes" I'm not your "babes", I do get cross about the way some words have become part of our language, my pet hate is "do the math" - no it's MATHS - I was taught Maths at school not Math.
I must admit invite doesn't bother me - I don't get many
Things that may bother others are the way you're addressed - I tend to call people "love" (Yorkshire Lass), down here in Devon it's "maid" which is ok, "my lover" I hate, I'm not!!! but "my lovely" Somerset & Devon is fine by me