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Invites!!!!!

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phoenix Sat 22-Oct-16 21:35:14

Please, please, please do NOT send me an "invite"

I am happy to receive an invitation to an event, which I may or may not attend, and I am also ok with being invited to something, again attendance is not guaranteed, but being a fairly polite person, if the INVITATION states RSVP, then of course I will.

But if someone says "I will send you an invite" aaaarrrggghhh!

Sorry, may be just me, if so, then as you were.blush

CrazyDaisy Sun 23-Oct-16 18:38:47

Newspaper headlines in this part of the world often use statements like "....... on the Increase" instead of "Increasing", for example. It really annoys me.

joannewton46 Mon 24-Oct-16 02:22:59

Sadly the English language is being dumbed down. I also hate invites. My other pet hates are stadiums instead of stadia and "come round to mine". It's just plain lazy and the BBC is as bad as anyone

LullyDully Mon 24-Oct-16 09:01:32

Hilda.What are your favrit sammidges? Tuner and maionazze? Or cheeze and pikkel?. ( kindle keeps correcting my spelling!)

Dandibelle Mon 24-Oct-16 10:06:28

Omg

Blinko Mon 24-Oct-16 10:11:44

The use of 'impact' as a verb? As in so and so s impacted by whatever... Grrr..

Lilyflower Mon 24-Oct-16 10:19:16

Verbs as nouns! Arggghhh! What about the 'medalling' that all the athletes were doing in the Olympics? It set my teeth on edge.

Rachel52 Mon 24-Oct-16 10:57:41

I completely agree. I usually respond to the 'invite' by thanking the sender for their kind INVITATION.

Maccyt1955 Mon 24-Oct-16 11:52:03

Not quite the same thing, but i hate waiters who take my order and then say 'no problem' or 'no worries', thereby making me feel I AM a problem!

Yorkshiregel Mon 24-Oct-16 12:09:44

Don’t get me started!

Off of
24/7
Touch base
Gotten
I’m good
My bad
Nail the jelly to the wall
Grown up speaking
Blue sky speaking etc etc
Do the Math
You guys (both sexes)
Ironical
Going forward
Heads up
Listen up
Good to go
Have a nice day

Yorkshiregel Mon 24-Oct-16 12:19:05

Wake up and taste the coffee
We are playing with the grownups
Take a hike
Singing from the same hymn sheet
Get a life
Suck it up
Punching beyond our weight

I feel as thought I am living in America sometimes. We know what they mean, but why not speak English?

cassandra264 Mon 24-Oct-16 13:21:28

Hi Yorkshiregel, I'm with you all the way. Have family who emigrated to the States years ago but who keep in close touch and now all the younger generation still in the UK say' you guys' 'good to go' ' I'm good' etc.

But I am equally annoyed with my daughter's use of language. She is still in England, and has, for some unknown reason, only now (after many years of marriage, and living near MIL and FIL) started to copy some of MIL's words and phrases.

These, like John Betjeman, ( see his 'pass me the fish knives, Norman' poem!)I was myself brought up to reject in favour of more traditionally British words commonly associated with Received Pronunciation! It grates that my own GC is learning to say 'kiddies' and 'lounge' (also, I think, American imports)instead of 'children' and 'living' or 'sitting'room' - as well as the word'invite' instead of 'invitation'....aargh!!

Language is not only a communication tool.Your choice of words also defines to some extent who you think you are - and will certainly influence what people think of you! As we all know, from having on occasion to be forced to listen to people who cannot speak without using the 'f' word in every sentence....

trisher Mon 24-Oct-16 14:07:37

Sorry folks this isn't an Americanism. It is used as early as 17 century grammarist.com/usage/invite/
Just more common now.

Jane10 Mon 24-Oct-16 14:25:14

'Common'? Oh dear! Another reason for never using it!

Yorkshiregel Mon 24-Oct-16 15:38:32

Wa Evah! :-)

grannylyn65 Mon 24-Oct-16 15:47:22

There are things that bother me more .

Legs55 Mon 24-Oct-16 17:35:00

Oh help "medalling" made me want to scream & "you guys" Estate Agents used that to myself & DH when we sold our house!!! Grrrrrr

Shinyredcar Mon 24-Oct-16 18:03:11

Hmm. Perhaps I'm not quite as pedantic as I thought. I loathe 'invite' as a noun, and 'medalling' also drove me mad.

But I am NOT a 'BRIT'.

However, I find 'guys' a useful unisex term.

Though 'kiddies' is a word I don't like, I have known it all my long life.

I have been relieved and surprised that while reporting and commenting on the current Jungle demolition in Calais our housing some young people from there has been reported as relating to 'children' in everything I have heard and read. What a relief! Even cabinet ministers dealing with young people's affairs refer to 'kids' usually.

Isabella1 Tue 25-Oct-16 09:09:46

Yorkshiregel wrote 'Gotten'

I'm with you on most of this except I don't mind 'gotten'. In fact it's we in the UK who have dropped this form (except you'll hear Joe Grundy use it). Strangely we still use 'forgotten' as the past participle of 'forget', an also beget/begotten. In fact it is quite useful as the two forms 'got' and 'gotten' have evolved into slightly different meanings in the US.

'They've gotten to go' and 'They've got to go' mean two quite different things.

HootyMcOwlface Tue 25-Oct-16 11:20:09

Yorkshiregel I am in agreement with you! I also hate "dude" with a passion! Just writing it now is making my blood pressure rise! Also that advertisement on TV for vitamins - Well Baby and Well KID! Grrrrrrrrrrr

Dandibelle Tue 25-Oct-16 16:06:01

Goodness me. What a good job there is nothing else to worry about.

phoenix Tue 25-Oct-16 19:43:57

Of course I have other things to worry about, currently many of them serious sad and of course there are other things that invade my nasal cavities than "invites"

If you can't take the op in the way it was intended, then I may as well stick my head in Rights water bowl and go blbbbbb.

phoenix Tue 25-Oct-16 19:45:14

That should have read "Digby" damn auto correct angry

Ana Tue 25-Oct-16 19:53:40

I have never heard the phrase 'they've gotten to go' in my life. What does it mean? confused

Isabella1 Wed 26-Oct-16 16:14:57

"I have never heard the phrase 'they've gotten to go' in my life. What does it mean?"

It means 'allowed' or 'permitted' or 'invited'

'Bob and Alice's niece wasn't sure whether to invite them to her wedding, but now they've gotten to go.'

shandi6570 Wed 26-Oct-16 16:42:25

I detest 'that's sick' said when someone thinks something is very good.

Yuk, it makes me feel sick, can't imagine where such a horrid expression came from.