There seem to be an overflow of Americanisms creeping in, which I cannot abide - my pet hate is 'can I grab' as in 'can I grab a coffee' - I feel like saying, I'm sure you can. Why do we find it necessary to copy such phrases? Is tv the big influence? and what phrase is your pet hate?
I dont live in the UK, and have noticed lots of people here using English words completely out of context, the other day a friend of my Grandson kept saying "nice" to everything, looking at something that was passing, and sayin "nice" I was so glad when he went home,he is not a child but twenty years old. Why doesnt he speak his own language. Another annoying thing when the predictive text on my computer puts in american spelling, it drives me mad.
It's more individual words I can't cope with that phrases. I hate: hubby, hollibobs, hun, and (dear lord) referring to pets as "fur babies". So infantile.
I don't like the Americanisms either, especially "Guys" when speaking about females. I once said in the States I am female not male. The American spelling in books drives me mad. Color for Colour, Curb for Kerb, etc and I could carry on. Please this is the English language not the American language.
Like painting the Forth Bridge - this topic is endless. One thread on the subject is rapidly succeeded by another and all the same people end up saying the same things as well as some new people saying the same things too! Like Brexit really ???
'Do you know what I mean?' tacked on to the end of a really obvious statement as if you are too stupid to understand.
I feel like saying, 'A two year old would know what you meant.'
I realise it is a verbal tic like many another but this one irritates me as it implies the hearer is stupid when it is often the speaker who is uttering banalities.