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They are NOT "Invites"& quot; !

(66 Posts)
phoenix Mon 14-Oct-19 21:18:48

This has been annoying me for ages! An area manager for a company that I worked for (for a mercifully short time) would email about meetings saying "I will send the invites soon"

NO! You will send invitations, invite is something you do, not something you send!

I nearly had a fit of the vapours a few months back when I heard Elizabeth Pargeter (of all people) on The Archers saying that Lily had been wonderful sending out all the "invites" shock Nigel would be turning in his grave!

Grammaretto Tue 15-Oct-19 15:01:17

Invites are thoroughly annoying but what grates with me at the moment is the use of THAT when they mean WHO As in: The person THAT gave it to me that when of course it should be the person WHO gave it to me.

I was taught objects are that and them but people should be who and whom.

This is Pedant's Corner before anyone dares to object.
I also agree that "I'm good thanks" is not the right answer to "How are you?"

felice Tue 15-Oct-19 14:55:46

I get annoyed here in Brussels by people calling themselves Xpats, they are in the main economic migrants. People who have moved to another country to work.
Some of them can be very critical of those migrants moving to Europe from outside the EU to find work, they do not seem to realise they have done the same.

cc Tue 15-Oct-19 14:50:26

I hate "invites" too. And also "impacts on" rather than "has an inpact on" - though I know that this has now become accepted language.

Paperbackwriter Tue 15-Oct-19 14:36:56

missdeke - the one of those noun-as-verb things that most confused me was hearing about athletes "medalling". I was wondering what on earth they'd been up to.

Paperbackwriter Tue 15-Oct-19 14:35:46

RobtheFox - I get quite annoyed about the expats thing too but not in the same way as you. People who move abroad are migrants, surely. Or are the British exempt from that term? I do sometimes wonder!

I don't much like 'invites' either and the one I really hate is 'gift' as a verb, as in "She was gifted a house". I know that it's not (apparently ) strictly wrong - goes back centuries - but it feels it to me.

missdeke Tue 15-Oct-19 12:49:45

There seems to be a preponderance of using verbs and nouns and nouns as verbs, especially in adverts, one that particularly irritates is the one where they ask you if 'you pod', another has a child who is asked if she can 'boyfriend'. A tablet advert spoke about summitting a mountain. The list goes on.

dragonfly46 Tue 15-Oct-19 12:47:02

I am afraid I hate the use of less than when used with people or things that can be counted. It should be fewer but even the newsreaders talk about less people etc

Stella14 Tue 15-Oct-19 12:17:12

I hate it too, and don’t even get me started on ‘a big ask’!

quizqueen Tue 15-Oct-19 12:03:39

I don't think people are 'invited' to attend a meeting, there is no choice usually but to go if it's part of the job to attend them. An invitation can be refused.

Belleringer Tue 15-Oct-19 11:59:50

Likely instead of probably - as in I’ll likely go to the shops tomorrow.

MamaCaz Tue 15-Oct-19 11:49:40

I'm just waiting for someone to moan that 'goodbye' is now being used instead of 'God be with you' grin

Shortlegs Tue 15-Oct-19 11:37:20

I think you may need to get out more.

whywhywhy Tue 15-Oct-19 11:30:06

I think there are so many other things in life to worry about.

Nanny27 Tue 15-Oct-19 11:29:06

Don't usually mind abbreviations at all just find the misuse of words really annoying

hicaz46 Tue 15-Oct-19 11:25:36

Oh Jenpax I must look that up. I agree with OP these things do matter, but I think it’s only the older generation that really cares.

Tigertooth Tue 15-Oct-19 11:18:05

Do you dislike all abbreviations?
Celebs
TV
Congrats
Etc

Ngaio1 Tue 15-Oct-19 11:13:54

I agree entirely. Very annoying!

Nanny27 Tue 15-Oct-19 11:10:08

Actually, not sure about car. ?

Nanny27 Tue 15-Oct-19 11:09:06

I also dislike 'invites' I don't agree that it is evolving language like 'bus' and 'pram'. These are shortened forms that have become the norm much like phone and car. Invite is a different word altogether and to my ears using it as a noun just sounds wrong.

MegrannyW1 Tue 15-Oct-19 10:50:46

Oh how I agree with you when it comes to the annoying use of the words could of, would of instead of the correct words, it's almost a lazy thing and am surprised there is not a better use of grammar in schools

winterwhite Tue 15-Oct-19 10:47:39

I'm with you Phoenix, jars on me every time I hear or see it which is not often. Don't think my DDs or even GDC use it so not evolving language?
But no one is 'stressing' about it grin This thread is for people interested in the use of language and no harm in that.

Margs Tue 15-Oct-19 10:46:23

"Apps" instead of "applications.......

jenpax Tue 15-Oct-19 10:43:08

I love this thread!? I belong to a Facebook group called Pedants Corner! ??‍♀️

RobtheFox Tue 15-Oct-19 10:33:24

I get annoyed at the use of the word "expats". Such people who are living in a country other than that of their birth are "expatriates" and not, as some tend to write, "expatriots"!

polnan Tue 15-Oct-19 10:30:16

grin aren`t we, ie humans a funny lot

does it matter? really?