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Gifting?

(36 Posts)
JackyB Thu 13-Nov-25 12:16:50

I would be bothered by 'et al', which only applies to persons, not things.

Cabbie21 Thu 13-Nov-25 11:07:01

Too many of those hoping to receive these ‘gifts’ will sell them.

NotSpaghetti Thu 13-Nov-25 10:55:19

keepcalmandcavachon

I rather like this, intentional giving with the purpose of delighting rather than just handing overgrin.

Yes, I see this and can agree. If it's a sparkling new (or especially lovely) gift (such as a fabulous artwork or the dishwasher we bought for my daughter and son in law when they moved house after getting married) but if it was my old well used washing machine it would be, more likely, "given away".

Witzend Thu 13-Nov-25 10:29:48

‘Gifting’ is everywhere now, and I hate it! Hardly anyone says ‘presents’ any more either - it’s so often *gifts’.
Bring back presents, and the giving of presents!

keepingquiet Thu 06-Nov-25 16:23:03

grandMattie

Hear, hear.
I loathe this American thing of “verbalising” nouns.

Me too!

winterwhite Thu 06-Nov-25 15:44:25

Agree with this principle though have never come across this scrounging.

Without meaning to derail, I much dislike the use of 'gift' for 'present'. Surely we give Christmas / birthday presents, not gifts?? 3 letters shorter I suppose.

keepcalmandcavachon Thu 06-Nov-25 15:06:57

I rather like this, intentional giving with the purpose of delighting rather than just handing overgrin.

Gwyllt Thu 06-Nov-25 14:41:24

Don’t usually join in on pedants” corner but perhaps instead of either term, use that of scrounging

Flippin2 Thu 06-Nov-25 14:39:55

I have a neighbour who is always on the scrounge on FB,it's always does anyone have a...it was a rabbit hutch,dogs paddling pool,now it's does anyone have an iPad they don't want..why shouldn't she pay for them like everyone else..

grandMattie Thu 06-Nov-25 14:22:21

Hear, hear.
I loathe this American thing of “verbalising” nouns.

Calendargirl Thu 06-Nov-25 14:16:14

Maybe not really for Pedants’ Corner, but fed up seeing on local Facebook page, often by an ‘Anonymous Member’, that ‘Is anyone gifting a dishwasher/washing machine/ cooker/fridge et al’.?

Why can’t they just say ‘Is anyone giving away said item?

Do they think it sounds better to say ‘gifting’?

Makes me really annoyed.