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cat-sitting and cat absence

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Annobel Mon 16-Jul-12 19:47:33

When I lived on our school compound in Kenya, I had a black cat which was a one-woman cat. I went away for a short trip, leaving him to be fed by my cook. However, he took up residence in a colleague's roof, refusing to come down until I came home and called him, whereupon he was down like a shot and charged in the door with me.

Grannylin Mon 16-Jul-12 19:47:21

How kind of them Charlotta confused

Charlotta Mon 16-Jul-12 19:41:14

Cats do disappear for weeks,some get locked in a garage and they can turn up after a few days. Next door's cat loves to stay away when her owners are not at home.
We came home once from a holiday in France about 20 years ago to find the neighbours waiting for us. I immediately sensed the worst and they told us our cat had died suddenly, perhaps had a knock from a car, and they had put the corpse in our spare fridge in the garage. It was the May weekend and hot as well so we understood why, but I have never forgotten it.

You can only hope for the best. Leaving an animal in the care of someone else is always a risk but most cats turn up immediately when their people come home.

Annobel Mon 16-Jul-12 19:23:09

The children across the road from me were looking after my neighbours' very elderly cat while they were on holiday. One day, the kids arrived at my door asking if I had seen Snookie. I hadn't but I knew where - under a bush in my garden - she liked to lie during the day. Sure enough she had gone there to die peacefully. sad
A happier story - my son's partner got two new kittens last year. Early this year, one of them, almost fully grown, just disappeared in the space of a few minutes. She put up posters round the neighbourhood and delivered flyers round the doors. She had given up hope when, five weeks later, she had a phone call - 'I think we have your cat in our garden.' And there she was, none the worse, and so glad to be home that she's hardly moved out of the garden since then. No-one knows where she was all that time and she's not letting on.grin

whenim64 Mon 16-Jul-12 18:56:11

One cat we had disappeared for weeks. We were frantic, searching everywhere. Then he turned up one monng at 5am, kicking off because he couldn't get in the house. He hadn't lost any weight. Probably been on his holidays!

flowerfriend Mon 16-Jul-12 18:33:38

I haven't had a cat of my own for at least fifteen years but I have been cat-sitting for my friend's cat every couple of months for the past two years. Everything was going well until the local strays worked out the cat door when it was particularly cold in February. This is now friend's third trip since then. This interference in her happy home was spooking friend's cat but this time it has caused her to be awol for six days. I am now anxious.

Yes, of course, the food I put down is going but it could be the locals. But I am worried. Cats do go off. Friend lives on the edge of the village and the countryside around is v. wild. I don't remember my own cats disappearing for more than two or three days. I don't want to do this again. Am I asking for advice? More in the way of reassurance really.